hi it's Ieva. What's the day of the week? Is it Thursday? happy Thursday so today
I'd like to talk about a very simple way to appear more attractive and if you
think you know it has something to do with your looks with how much money you
got or any you know of those external things then you're wrong so I want to
share that with you because I think that that is gonna be really helpful for you
if you are someone you know maybe you lack self-confidence maybe you struggle
with women so it could be anything so yesterday I was approached on
Instagram I got a message from this guy saying question I didn't know it was a
guy just this person I think I would like to write a summary for your book so
I was like well what is this so he's got this person has got a
YouTube channel and what he does he summarizes people's books so I think
that's a genius idea so of course I I sent him my book my book HOW TO GET LAID NOW
The Modern Man's Strategy to Approaching Women Like the Boss. You
should get it just haven't got it yet and yeah I send you my book then some
hours later I was really surprised when he got back to me and he is like you
know I'm done I've read your whole book I was like wow I was like so impressed
this person managed I mean my book is not like you know that long but still it's
it's it's a fairly long book for I don't know he he managed thought to do in like
such a short period of time and then I didn't really know much about him then
he started saying I asked him you know so I would like to know something about
you so he said oh my name is Michael I'm from Melbourne
and so I asked him also about his YouTube channel so what is your channel
about so he said that he reads books and summarizes them so and then he told me
that his goal this year is to summarize 500 books by the end of this year he's
like oh you know oh it's just my side hustle and this is my goal to summarize
500 books so I was like wow because um so who gets very attracted to someone
who is driven goes towards his goals or her goals hi Kevin someone who is works
hard who is because the way I see it with a lot of people and I don't know it
you might not be someone but so that now it's like coming to the end of January
so it's very likely that the goals you set yourself on the first of January
your new year's resolutions some of them have some of those resolutions have
failed tell me give me some give me one give me
one in the comments if your new year's resolutions have failed if at least one
of your new year's resolutions have failed so I'm someone also you know I am
a I'm a normal person and of course some of my resolutions have failed I have not
had enough meals as I plan to I did not carry on with my yoga and the list goes
on however this guy he's he doesn't have
like a big following smoking yeah that's a good one I don't smoke
yeah but that's a good one Jaclyn so he doesn't have a like a big following or
his audience is not big but he is still working towards and he wants to achieve
his goals and he wants to do 500 summaries of those books so imagine the
knowledge that one person can get and how much you can love
if you can read 500 books in one year I'm just like mind blown like this is
amazing and and it was interesting because I don't I don't know Michael and
Michael doesn't know me but we exchanged this conversation and he told me about
his goal and what he's doing and that instantly made me feel like you know I'm
attracted to this pass and because he works hard he's driven and he goes
towards his goals so do you find it attractive
give me some hearts give me some hearts in the comments if you find someone like
that attractive someone who's ambitious someone who's driven someone who's
hard-working resilient because I find these qualities so like so so hot like
really really hot if you can start a project and if you can carry on without
giving up when the first obstacle comes I'm like I salute you I think this is
amazing and then I started thinking about other ways when I would for
instance I had there I told you last week was a two weeks ago I went on why
sadface who send me a sad face I went to a speed-dating event where there were a
lot of single men and to tell the truth I don't really remember like what they
were wearing I didn't look that much at their shoes I
don't I don't remember that much of those things but the ones that I
remember I'm writing and directing my first short feature and spring and some
of the see I'm also working towards achieving spiritual enlightenment
reconditioning my body and mind yeah I see Joe that is hot I think that is
really hot that you're working towards you know your goals you also developing
yourself not just you know like work wise but you want to be like a better
person I think that is amazing if because a lot of people stop studying
and learning after they finish the formal education so I think are
those kinds of attractive traits absolutely these are attractive and
especially if you want to attract a woman of a high value someone who is
interested in more substance someone who wants to grow as a person for her these
things will be important for a woman that is that wants to you know create a
life that is full of experiences and surround herself with interesting and
driven people these things are attractive I need to sell a lot of
people then yeah you do of course of course you do you need to share your
goals and you need to tell those people so yeah going back to the speed-dating
event what I was saying is that I remember two guys one was the one who
said I asked him so how do you find people in here how do you find women are
you attracted to a lot of women and he said oh not really because everyone is
quite boring and I asked him so why is that and he said oh because people don't
have hobbies they don't have goals all they do they
just stay at home they watch films they you know they stay on Netflix they go to
pubs and that's it and I thought and then start talking with him about his
goals and what he's doing and I thought you know that that makes sense and I do
remember this person and I remember I wasn't physically attracted to him the
way he looked but because he shared that he is looking for someone who wants to
achieve things someone who's interesting someone who is interested in in in
developing himself that made me more attracted to him then I also remember
this other instance where I met someone and this pass and this guy it was like
our kind of like a first date now you're gonna think this is like the
weirdest first date ever but where he took me he and I like weird
stuff I like where people I like quirky thing
then people that like to you know show how they yeah and and they're
unapologetic and I like that so he took me to his basketball practice now you
might think like who does that the fancy dinner would be nicer however I thought
that was so hot him running sweaty him in his element
giving directions to others playing with that ball and coming all tired and just
running around that it was just so good and I was like and I didn't think not
much you know above that guy but when I saw him play basketball and being this
team and and be this like a team leader and playing with others and encouraging
others and inspiring them and just making something creating this even if
it was a basketball game and even if I'm from Lithuania I'm not that interested
in basketball but but yeah it's just it just looked really really hard so what I
want you to take from this is if you are someone who is really looking to better
yourself and you would like to appear more attractive and you meet looking to
meet whether you're looking to meet a woman or a man or or you're just looking
to know maybe make friends and surround yourself with people that could inspire
you you could do that you could do cool things with what you need to do it you
need to start something exciting so tell me in the comments it's there anything
that you always wanted to do and hobby maybe dancing could be anything
learn a new language pick up a new sport anything is there anything like that if
there is anything like that I would like to know because I would like you you
know to inspire each other so if you're driven if you want to learn things I
would like you to invite you to my book launch that's
be on Saturday in Leicester and on Sunday in hi Kashif in London now during
this my book launch it's going to be an event where there will be a lot of
people that are ambitious driven that want to learn things those that maybe
want to start their own business or want to go to the next level and in their
career you know just really really cool people and if you are someone that wants
to just do cool things I think you should definitely come and and I would
like to meet you and I think I I know if you come you just gotta be so inspired
because I don't know about you but for me it's like that every day
I'm not surrounded by these like very pumped up I want to do this stuff I want
to achieve these big things people so I think it's very healthy it doesn't
matter at what stage you are in your life whether you are a student whether
you are jobless whether you have a great job or you own the business you want to
do whatever I think it's very nice to sometimes go to these kind of events and
be inspired by others to be around people that also want to grow themselves
that want to achieve bigger things for themselves so yeah I think you should
definitely do that and of course I'll be there so if you come which I hope you
will because I really really want you to come I put the link in here I think
there are still three spots where you can register and you don't need to pay
anything so yeah please come if you come please do not be shy and actually
approach me and say hi because I would like to know about you I want to give
you some maybe dating advice love advice or maybe you want to ask about something
you can ask me anything or I guess almost anything unless it's like rude
stuff I mean I can answer stuff think the main thing let me see I
think the main thing is that we as humans will learn from every other human
we should unite of course yes that's very important that's why I think
it's extremely important the people that you surround yourself with because it's
very important sometimes to look at even I know it's not nice to say but
sometimes your closest people might even if it's your family they might not be
the ones that you should spend most of your time with because like I'm lucky my
family is great they're the most loving people and I'm very lucky like my family
is amazing but I know there are some people that got family members who bring
that down who tell them that they're not good enough who tell them that you know
you can't achieve this you can't do this you are not smart you are not
intelligent and all these kinds of things so I think it's very important
from time to time look at the circle at your friends and the people that
surround you and kind of just think you know okay these people in my life do I
want to be like them if I do if they're even better than me then that's great if
that's not the case you need to do something to change it and once you
start learning once you start investing in yourself you you develop as a person
you instantly become more attractive there is nothing nothing more attractive
then someone who is passionate who's driven
someone who's interested in things because I don't know I'm very drawn to
these people and I think it's contagious when when you are in the room with
someone and that person is proud and is telling you about the project and it's
telling how he's gonna take over the world and do things I think it's very
very nice let me know if you agree whether you're watching live or when it
whether you're watching replay let me know if you agree and yeah leave me
comments likes hearts make sure you tag someone I need to hear
this and I think that's it yeah so I hope you have a very lovely evening and
I'm gonna make myself some hot chocolate with marshmallows because why not
marshmallows they always make things better not that there is anything wrong
with it or whatever but yeah so yeah sending you lots of love and see you on
not Sunday I'm gonna be in London on Sunday for the book launch
I'll see you probably on Tuesday yeah see ya take care sending a lots of love
bye
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