Toxic People: How to End a Bad Relationship
It takes time to end what is seemingly a bad relationship, especially if you really love
him, or her.
Bad relationship is usually started by a toxic person in a relationship.
It can be from one partner, family, or friend.
It is worth mentioning that there is always external factor involved in a relationship.
That toxic person can destroy the relationship too.
However, before blaming someone else, it is worth mentioning that the main factor that
makes relationship bad is toxic person in a relationship.
Sometimes, fixing the person may be a good idea to have healthy relationship.
However, sometimes ending the relationship itself is the best thing you can do.
If you are wondering how, please follow these steps.
#1 - Diagnosing the relationship
Toxic relationship that should be ended deals with bad friends.
Friends who put you down in various situation, friends who always envy of your achievement,
friends who want to transform you, and friends who take more than giving are signals of bad
friendship that should be ended.
If it is your lifetime partner, that should be ended soon because it may affect your life
in the long run too.
#2 - Recognizing your role in a relationship
Sometimes, relationship becomes toxic from your perspective, because you don't know
your role.
It is important to recognize your role before you can decide whether you are being abused
or not.
You also need to know that your role in a relationship can be either a partner or a
friend or an object.
Be careful if you are the later.
#3 - Start creating boundary
If you are sure that the relationship should end, you should start making boundaries.
Creating boundaries is not easy, and it is painful and hurting at the same time.
However, you should stick to it.
Draw obvious line, and you'll have to be consistent about it.
This keeps you from being humiliated and abused.
#4 - You cannot change people
This actually means, you should not even try to change your friend or your partner with
the hope that the relationship will get better.
It will not.
The condition will remain because people have different level of empathy, care, attention,
intelligence, and many other personal values.
When it comes to toxic people, they surely will not change themselves easily because
they even don't know the right things.
#5 - Getting second opinion
This one is important because you will realize that your relationship may survive or not.
However, most people will say no because they love you and they do not want you to suffer
more.
You can even ask for professional help to get the most accurate advice.
However, you should stick to it because it is all about your life.
#6 - You teach people how to treat you
The next thing that you should consider is basically putting yourself in how you want
it to look.
Too many people are busy for pleasing others by lending money, renting stuffs, and obey
other's command.
However, those things make relationship poor because there is a power gap in your relationship.
Well, that's some tips on how to end a bad relationship.
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