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eight types of hugs and what they say about your relationship there are many

ways to describe a relationship you could describe it by a kiss you could

describe it by interests and you can describe it by opposites but did you

know that you could also describe it by a hug

there are many different ways you can hug your partner but one you use most

dominantly is what describes your relationship best

so whether you like to give your partner big bear hugs or more of a soft hug the

weight you hug the person you love can say a lot about the place your

relationship is in keep watching for different types of hugs you can give

your boyfriend or girlfriend and each of them tells a different tale of what type

of relationship you have before we begin this video don't forget to subscribe to

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never miss our new videos number eight the bear hug the bear hug is also known

as the deadlock hug the tight squeeze is filled with emotions that scream I'll

never let you go this type of hug implies that your relationship is

serious and it's filled with everlasting emotion when a couple gives each other a

bear hug it is a sign of affection that they love each other and don't want to

let each other go there's just something about being wrapped in someone else's

arms that is comforting warm and loving this type of hug is usually only shared

between a couple that is very much in love and represents the affection in

love they have for one another the bear hug is very common at the beginning of a

happy relationship and is also very common for people in love who haven't

seen each other in a long time however if this hug is persistent in a mature

happy relationship it could indicate the fear of loss number 7 the polite hug if

your boyfriend or girlfriend hugs you and leave space between the hug

especially in the lower body it's a direct sign that your partner feels

uncomfortable with you this might be the type of hug that a couple gives to each

other just after they've gotten into a it usually means there's some kind of

distance or unresolved issue that they have not come to an agreement on when a

couple is fighting and they give each other this type of hug it is usually

only done out of politeness and there's usually no emotion or affection

associated with it most commonly these type of pugs happen after a fight or

dispute happens between two partners but if they happen for no reason it's a sign

that your partner does not want to come close to you if you or your partner are

arguing or are not on the best of terms but still want to show respect by

hugging this is probably the type of hug you'd give if you are not on the best of

terms with your boyfriend or girlfriend try to think about resolving your issues

number six legs around the waist hug this hug when

a boyfriend or girlfriend jumps up and wraps their legs around you signifies a

deep attraction and intense passion towards the other partner couples who

hug each other like this are typically very close to one another they have a

very strong and intimate connection and it shows in the way they display their

affection towards one another their physical closeness is very strong and

they have an intense passion and not many other couples share this is a type

of hug that couples who are very much in love share with one another number five

the stand still hug this type of hug is when one partner

squeezes and hugs with their entire mind while the other partner doesn't even

lift an arm this is a sign of a lack of reciprocation the reason for the lack of

reciprocation could be that the partner may not be into the whole relationship

idea while the other one is it's best to confront the partner who is not showing

any love and find out what's wrong when a couple hugs each other this way it

might also mean that the partner who is not reciprocating the hug maybe feeling

signs of resentment the couple may be arguing over something or they may also

have some unresolved issues that they have not worked out between them it is

always best to communicate with each other if you're experiencing issues with

your partner so that the small problems don't turn into big problems are you

curious about what science says that hugs reveal about

your relationship stick around until the end to find out number four the intimate

hug hugging and making direct eye contact with the partner is a sign of

great intimacy and a beautiful connection it has been said that eye

contact is a sign of interest and great emotion so when you combine that with a

hug you know you've got something special when a couple locks eyes with

one another they share a strong and deep connection that only two people who are

in love can share and when a couple shares this type of hug while locking

eyes with one another they are affectionately showing each other that

they love one another unconditionally this type of intimate hug also leads to

a kiss which is another sign of affection if you are lucky enough to

experience a hug like this often in your happy relationship - you are lucky

because there are not many people that get to experience it often or at all

number three the buddy hug hugging your partner from the side with your arm

directly over their shoulder means that you not only value them as an intimate

partner but you completely trust them as your best friend it's been said that

love is not enough in a relationship and there is some truth to that when you

have a best friend you trust each other and are there for each other by hugging

your partner like this it will signify that without even saying it this type of

hug can be done when a couple is walking down the street or maybe even standing

beside each other in a social function if a couple is at a social dinner and

are sitting beside each other one partner may put their arm around the

other partner as a sign of affection this lets the other partner know that

they're always right beside them and is another sign of affection that shows how

much they love one another number two the back hug this type of hug

occurs when one partner has their back turned and the other grabs them from the

back with their arms wrapped around their shoulders this type of hug shows

trust and protection the partner who has their back turn trust the other enough

to do that the hugger offers protection by showing that they have their back

this hug is very similar to the bear hug it is an affectionate hug that shows

that two people are in love with each other the person giving this type of hug

wants to show their partner that they are there to protect them no matter what

they want to be there for their partner and show it by giving them a hug that

represents love they have for the other person number one the pampered hug

this type of hug signifies a deep caring nature and is usually followed by a kiss

to the forehead this type of hug is usually given by a more elderly person

this is not to say that the type of hug doesn't happen in relationships but it's

just not as common as some of the other strong ones but this is not to say that

you shouldn't use it it's always good to reassure your partner that you have a

caring nature now that you know what eight different types of hugs say about

your relationship here's what scientists say that those hugs mean about your

relationship according to psychology today when you hug someone it makes the

body produce oxytocin this calms the nervous system and also creates a

feeling of relaxation oxytocin is also known to reduce blood pressure as well

as heart stress so keep hugging the people you love if you want to feel the

effects of relaxation and it's stress-free life the more you know which

type of hug do you commonly use when you embrace your partner where we right

about any of the types of hugs and what they say about your relationship let us

know in the comments section below enjoyed this video hit the like button

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Improve Sexless Marriage - AMAZING Relationship Advice from Sex Therapist Dr. Alfons | #sextips - Duration: 12:23.

I often talk about how important it is to visualize relationships as the

foundation of any kind of success that you see in your life and keeping that in

mind I want to start off this video with a very important point to remember this

people buy from people and when you want to actually see a relationship and take

it to a really great level in your life you need to remember that everything

that you want in your life it comes from relationships and you talk

about this very important concept and how to build strong relationships using

three simple simple tips we have with us dr. Ravi yeah dr. alphonse ronstein

reagan he's from Belgium and he has over 40 years of experience

in the field he's a couples therapist a sex therapist

and he's also a public speaker and an author of the book is good enough couple

good enough yes so it's it's my privilege to have you here on this

channel and also have you shared your years of experience and knowledge on

this very important topic because I've been reinforcing on this channel many

many times how important it is to have a good relationship and to basically use

relationships in the way they are meant to be used and to not only improve our

own lives but also the lives of other people so could you share with us three

simple tips that could actually help us negotiate or deal with relationships

that we either have with ourselves or that we have with other people in a

better way yes the first thing you think it's very

important is to be conscious that in every relationship also in loving

relationship there are a lot of difference

and in order to cope with these differences it's necessary to talk with

each other even if that is difficult because I think that when it is

difficult it's really important to do it and by talking we create common meaning

we create dual constructs that means that we together are making the worlds

for our living together that's the first thing it's funny because we deal with so

many of our own relationships on the foundation of assumptions yes and that

creates the foundation for a lot of problems essentially and something as

simple as talking how do you find out whether there is someone who's facing a

problem with you if you are facing a problem with someone else doing

something how do you negotiate that you talk it's so simple but very important

is the way we do because a lot of people in relationship are telling you are this

or me or that I am very important is to keep it to myself

then I tell something about myself so I messengers very I tell about my feelings

and my experiences are very important in living together relationship so when we

go ahead and do this kind of talking we need to use I statements or I messages

that I think I feel I believe and I've reinforced this message quite a few

times when it comes from a position of I becomes my opinion yes versus you make a

lot of generalized statements yes it kind of takes away now probably my

opinion that especially more my experiences and my failures that's when

you so we've understood they're talking or

coming from a position of I is so important what else can we do to

actually a little bit ahead with this concept of using our own power to

improve our relationships what else can we do

yes the second thing to me is to empathize and I mean with empathy a very

special thing that is that I try to understand your feelings and then I

value your feelings so I will when you say something say to you if I understand

you well you are feeling like Dettol net and then I ask if I'm right and if you

say then yes then I think we have started a communication on the deeper

level that's very interesting because often in any relationship that we're in

will be the business relationship or a relationship where we're being mentored

by someone or a romantic relationship we often run into a roadblock because we

often fail to validate the other person's feelings yes this is such an

empowering way to do it by actually communicating and saying do I get you

right do I understand you correctly yes so

when you put it like that I think the way you say that the empathy comes out

yeah I mean people often ask this question how do I be more empathic this

is exactly how you do it yes you keep asking you keep talking you keep sending

the message across and again it goes back to avoiding making a lot of

assumptions about yes and then the third thing it's also failing to do this if we

have a difference about what we will do together and this

difference is there that we try to negotiate and to negotiate well there

are two things very important first to put the difference on table I want white

you want black and if the difference is on table it's easy to find solutions but

the second problem is that a lot of people are giving in too quickly so we

should be very careful and only give what we are able to give and then we

will come to an agreement that's better for the both of us

that's negotiation it's I think it's a quality that is developed over time this

art of negotiation maybe in future videos we can have more content coming

out on this particular topic of negotiation because again in any

relationship negotiation forms the foundation of how you move forward and

one of the things that you mentioned about making differences very clear many

times things are not to our liking we left we left in terms of you know how we

want to move forward we're left with a roadblock how do I get

past this you talk to a little bit more about how can we make differences very

clear to other people that I come from a different place or I think a certain way

how can we negotiate past these differences well very what I said I said

that putting the difference on tables from both sides it was very important

and then being conscious that we are in an equal relationship that's also

important because if someone has the power and the other not that's not a

negotiation negotiation means that we are both on the same level

I think it's putting it very simply but the impact is so huge we one of the

things that you mentioned today while you were delivering your presentation

was about how we view relationships as a hierarchical relationship versus

something that comes from a place of equivalence or we view each other as

equals you do not see we feel we have differences but we look past the

differences and we see how we can work together yes that is a position that we

think that we are different that's a fact we are different so to speak in

everything but the assumption that we making that is an unethical position is

that you're equal in value so at that moment we are both able to speak to take

positions together really puts a lot of impact again in what it means to make a

relationship work so putting all of this together is so

essential if you want to build a strong relationship and also take it forward

because relationships are what make people and also move people and if you

are looking to actually do this and take your life forward remember that

relationships again form the foundation of every single thing that you will need

do or become so keeping all of that in mind once again reinforcing all three of

the points that you've mentioned for us number one we need to keep talking

you'll talk to the people around you you're not sure don't as you talk to

them try and find out exactly what is going on with that other person and that

moves into number two which is empathy where you ask for confirmation you

look at it from their position by actually asking them clarifying and

actually think critically about what you say or what you do how does that

actually impact the other person and finally the third and probably the most

important thing that we need today in terms of business relationships romantic

relationship mentorship relationships or even a relationship were here you know

you need to get in to attempt something as simple as that where short-term

relationships are need to be considered remember that negotiation is the

foundation of how you will move forward in any relationship so putting all of

this together if you are looking for more content like this not only to build

stronger relationships I would recommend that you read dr. alphonse book which is

the couple so I will leave a link to that down in the description box below

you can go check it out and also in future I would like you to keep in mind

that relationships are what make you so don't take any relationship that you

have either with yourself or with other people for granted relationships are

everything in life and if you're a rugged individualist you're someone who

likes to do everything yourself you're not going to go very far remember

this statement if you want to go fast go alone but if you want to go far go with

other people keeping all of this in mind if you found this video useful make sure

you hit the thumbs up button comment down below and tell me what you thought

about this video what was your biggest takeaway from this video what are you

gaining from this content I want to know comment down below and if you have any

questions leave them down there as well and of course if this is your first time

here make sure you hit the subscribe button down below difficut shion's and

check out all of the videos that I have for you down below and of course the

clear is that I made on emotional intelligence hit the eye button go check

that out once again I would like to thank dr. alphonse for taking the time

out possibly actually come here and talk to us about all of these amazing things

and remember that relationships are as important as we are to ourselves this is

recon signing off and I will see you in the next session

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Trump-Daughter Relationship (Disturbing) - Duration: 2:32.

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Monique's Relationship W/ Her Mom Affects Her: "I Yell a Lot at My Kids" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN - Duration: 1:01.

So tell me about you and your mom.

My and my mom's relationship is just really rocky.

Do you cuss at your mom?

Mm-hmm.

And what does mom do in return?

The same.

Yell.

Cuss.

And I find myself passing that on to my kids.

How?

Because like I yell a lot my kids.

I yell a lot.

And I hate it.

And it's like I have little compassion.

So when you look in the mirror, what do you see?

Today.

I see somebody that I hate.

Really?

Huh.

I just want to hurt somebody. IYANLA: Yes.

I always want to just hurt somebody.

IYANLA: Yeah.

As much as I've been hurt.

IYANLA: That's right.

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Relationship. Are You Sure You Want One, A Book by Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt - Duration: 3:32.

So, relationship,

Are you sure you want one?

Relationship, Are you sure you want one?

Hang on... shhhh quiet on the set....

Why did we call this book

Relationship, Are you sure you want one?

We were looking at it one day and we were like,

"What should we call this? What's the title for this?"

And I said, "Relationship, Are you sure you want one?"

Why?

Because it's funny. - Yes, I started laughing.

Because a lot of people go,

"Well, relationship, of course you want one, you need one!"

In this world you need a relationship or your life is not full.

I don't agree with that.

So, this is about relationship. Are you sure you want one?

The one thing that both of us have always done

is wake up every day and say,

"Okay, is this working for me today?"

So, it's a choice.

So again, Relationship, Are you sure you want one?

This is not going to be like your normal relationship book.

Relationship means, the distance between two things.

It's not about having a relationship, it's about getting more of you.

What you want to ask for is to be in a relationship

that you can create at least 20 times more

than what you would when you are alone.

This book for me is about getting your life to work a little easier.

When it comes to relationship I've not seen that much ease with it.

To be in a great relationship you actually need to have a great relationship with you.

You need to have what we refer to in the book,

the five elements of intimacy.

Gratitude, allowance, trust, vulnerability and honor.

This is about getting you to the place

where you can actually have some joy in your life with relationship

or not with relationship but with yourself.

So, my hope is that when people read it

is they get that for them.

You are the source of creation,

somebody else is not the source of creation.

You have to actually look at you first

to create what it is that you would like to have as your life and your living.

Relationship is not about answer and it's not about conclusion.

One of the biggest things I see with people tripping them up in relationships

is they look for the perfect one, they look for the perfect relationship.

They have all these things like,

"Well, the relationship should have this and the person should have this

and not this and this and not this and this and not this"

When you have all those things in place,

it's really hard to find somebody who's actually going to care about you,

who's actually going to be there for you, who's actually going to support you,

who's actually going to not judge you.

And that's for me what having a great relationship is about.

What if there was totally a different choice available.

Relationship, Are you sure you want one?

Good morning birds!

What if you could...hey!

Feels like there's like a zillion noises occurring.

- I'm hot!

- He's having a clothing crisis, it's pretty cool.

- Alright, give me ten minutes, ok?

- Alright, bye!

Um, I'm sweating but I don't want it to come through my shirt

so I'm like keeping my shirt off me.

- You guys are making me hot.

Chicks dig scars and hairy chests... You know, that's how it is.

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CREATING A PEACEFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR KIDS - Duration: 6:13.

You guys, one of my favorite questions that we get asked is, How we are so calm a patient

with our kids.

I wanted to share with you guys the secret to a good relationship with your kids.

Ok, it's not the only secret and it's not the secret to a perfect relationship with

your kids.

It's something that's helped me communicate better with our daughters and understand each

other better.

And just handle conflict resolution a little more easily for both of us.

So let me start by saying that I am not a saint of a parent.

My kids will be the first to tell you that, I yell...sometimes.

Probably daily.

Kids are not really known for their angelic behaviors.

Like let's be honest, 2, 3, and 4 year olds, enough to make you lose your mind.

And then they get to be like 5 and 6 and 7 and they learn how to talk back.

They know how to push your crazy buttons.

Your patience capacity can be maxed out and then when it keeps going past that, boom,

explosion.

I know, I've been there.

And I'm pretty sure that 99.999999 percent of you parents have also.

I'm not going to pretend that I have all of it together.

I'm not going to pretend that I don't yell at my kids, because I do.

But, I do know a couple things.

Yelling, losing your cool, disciplining out of frustration and anger those things are

damaging.

Not just to your child, but also to you and to your relationship.

So what can you do in those situations to create healing and to foster a stronger relationship

with your child.

So the key to all of this and what it all boils down to is apologizing.

Ok I know that's really simple and might even sound a little silly.

But apologizing.

It's easy to do when you're telling your child "no" for something.

No, I'm sorry you can't have ice cream for breakfast, sweetie.

No, I'm sorry you can't go to your friends house at 6 o' clock in the morning.

No, I'm sorry we're not going to buy you a pony for Christmas.

Whatever it is.

Those kinds of things are easy to say you're sorry for.

What's not easy to say sorry for is when WE'VE done something wrong.

Especially if we feel like it's warranted because our children are acting like maniacs.

Because they're talking back to us.

Because they threw something at our head.

Because they're screaming like banshies.

Whatever it is, those are the moments where we lose it and it's real hard to come back

and apologize.

Here is where the freedom and joy comes in.

When you change your perspective and understand that it doesn't matter if you just had your

first baby or you just had your sixth baby.

You are a new parent to each one of those children because they all have different personalities,

they all learn at different rates.

They all have different things that bring them joy and different things that set them

off.

You have to learn over and over every time you have a child how to parent THAT child.

And not only that, every stage of that child's life you're a new parent.

So, I'm a new parent to my oldest, Tyler, when she was born.

The very first time being a caretaker for a tiny human.

And then Elena was born and it was my first time being a parent to her.

Then Tyler turned two and it was my first time being a parent to a two year old.

And then she turned three and it was my first time being a parent to a three year old.

And it was my first time parenting Elena as a two year.

Do you see?

Each stage brings different things, different challenges because - oh, my word, I thought

twos and threes were bad..

Hello six and seven!

This is NOT my sweet spot.

This is the part where they have their own opinions and they are capable of doing so

much more than I even realize.

And a lot of times I might limit them on what they can do because I'm like "no, you're not

big enough to do that on your own."

Yes.

They are.

Sometimes they try to do the things on their own and I get mad at them for it because they've

made a mess or destroyed something.

There are so many frustrating things that can happen in a day.

Where I have found the joy in those chaotic moments and the moments that I want to yell

or have yelled.

Where I find redemption and healing and where I can use those things to build my relationship

with my children - is in sitting down and explaining to them.

"I'm sorry, mommy lost it.You've got to understand that this is the first time that I've been

a mom to a seven year old.

It's hard for me too.You're making mistakes when you're trying to learn new things.

I'm making mistakes too.

You know, it really made me upset when you went into my office and took a bunch of my

supplies and taped your sister's door locked so she couldn't get out (that really happened

the other day).

Um, whatever it is that she's done..

I say "that made me really upset and I'm forgiving you for that - I want you to know that.I forgive

you, it's okay.

Because you're learning, it was a mistake.

And mommy yelled at you and that was a mistake, so can you forgive me to?"

And that apology and explaining to her that "Hey, it's okay to make mistakes.

Did you know that you're going to make them your whole life?

Even when you're a mom?

Because here I am.. owning up to my mistake" And as much as it sucks to do - to apologize

to your child.

For her - it gives her grace for me and understanding "oh, hey my mom's not perfect.

But that means it's okay that I'm not perfect."

And it just creates understanding where I've noticed that stepping up and apologizing like

that is me giving grace to myself.

In saying "you know what, you're not a pro at this and that's okay - go say sorry because

you messed up."

That gives me grace to make mistakes and then I'm able to extend grace to my children when

they make mistakes and then they're able to extend grace back to me because I've been

honest about making mistakes.

It kind of creates this like circle.

It just fosters this attitude of forgiveness and gratitude and understanding.

I don't know, I just feel like it gives us all a little bit of freedom to continue to

learn and to love each other as deeply as we possibly can.

I hope that this video has helped you or at least made you feel understood.

And that it gives you hope for your relationship with your kids.

In those moments when it's especially hard to go and apologize to your kids or in those

moments where you still don't feel like you're good enough - rest in God.

Because His grace is enough to cover all of you.

You and your children.

You know this probably works on your husbands too, just saying.

We love you guys so much.

We're glad that you're with us.

Jesus loves you and we will see you next time!

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6 Short Stories About Relationships & True Love - Duration: 9:08.

six short stories about relationships and true love have you ever been in love

love is something truly complex that cannot be precisely defined or described

it's a special feeling shared between two people a feeling that is evident

however a feeling that is difficult to grasp and completely explain love can be

felt and shown in many different ways towards friends family or an individual

that you've developed a genuine affection and connection with regardless

it is a sensitive manner and one of the more intricate feelings that humans

experience we hear a lot of stories about love some that make our hearts

melt and some that restore our faith and hope and humanity the couples that last

are the ones who have gone above and beyond to secure their bond in

relationship now keep watching for six short stories and examples that are sure

to leave you optimistic and confident the true love does exist in this world

before we begin this video don't forget to subscribe to our channel for more

daily tips like this and turn on notifications so you never miss our new

videos number six unconditional love this love story is

about a couple who met online like a lot of modern-day couples have the girl

described the man as funny kind and educated and also very handsome they use

Skype to keep in touch for several years the man was afraid to meet however the

woman insisted on it and traveled thousands of miles abroad so they could

finally see each other upon arrival she had realized that the man was disabled

and couldn't walk this didn't change anything for her and they went on to

spend three months together before ultimately becoming engaged this is an

example of unconditional love and love that wasn't changed in any way based on

distance or appearance number five sacrifice this story

involves a couple who after the birth of their son had to overcome an issue that

the wife had started experiencing her vision was deteriorating and although

she had already been wearing glasses regularly it started to get much worse

her husband couldn't stand to see her suffer and took on the second job as

well as additional online work to save up enough money for corrective eye

surgery sacrificing his time with his family and his sleep he finally made

enough to cover the costs after the procedure was successfully done she

returned home amazed at how clear her vision was again although it was a tough

year to endure for her husband it was all worth it to him this is a great

example of the sacrifices people make for their families and their loved ones

are you curious about what happens to our brains when we fall in love well

there is science behind it and you might want to stick around until the end to

find out what it is number for moving abroad this is a story of a 19 year old

individual who lost his leg he had been dating a girl at the time and they were

in love she had ended up deciding to move abroad with the hopes of going and

earning money for the two of them the boyfriend made the decision to split up

claiming it would be better for her just a month later his doorbell rang and much

to his surprise it was her before he could even speak she slapped him and he

fell to the floor she lay down beside him hugged him and said you're an idiot

I didn't run away from you we're going to the hospital tomorrow and there's a

prosthetic leg waiting for you I went abroad to earn money so you'll be able

to walk again do you understand overwhelmed with emotion he was

speechless and just cried while holding her tight this is a true example of

sticking with your partner no matter what and devoting yourself to them

number three in sickness and in health a girl was diagnosed with a brain tumor at

the young age of 18 she thought that her death was imminent and decided to let

her boyfriend know that she would understand if he left her immediately he

replied with yeah right who when pigs fly eventually it was revealed that her

tumor was benign and she would be okay after all the to Wed at 21 and had a

daughter together number 2 challenging times this is the story of a man who

dated a beautiful privileged girl who he was able to support he found her

easygoing and fun and ended up asking her to marry him just a few weeks later

he was involved in an accident that left him partially paralyzed the girl who had

apparently been spoiled really surprised him taking care of him for several

months and proving to be a loving and faithful partner she even went ahead and

sold her personal belongings and learned to cook special meals for him she

refused to allow him to apologize for anything

and additionally never showed any doubt disgust or fear despite anything this is

evidence of a love that remains strong regardless of what may happen down the

line and how your partner can pleasantly surprise you during challenging times

number one someone out there for everyone in this example we have the

story of a man who was sterile having kept it from his first girlfriend due to

the fear of her leaving he decided to finally let her know but it was too late

she had left like he thought she would experiencing depression for a year he

explored other relationships which all led to nothing however half a year later

he had met a girl whom he'd fallen in love with but again was too afraid to

tell her about his condition he decided to be upfront and let her know into his

surprise she was fine with it and suggested they could adopt a child in

the future it was then and there that he knew he

wanted to marry her this is evidence that there's still hope even if someone

else has let you down because there's always someone out there for everyone so

now that you've heard some stories about true love here's the science behind love

and what happens to your brain when you start to fall in love with someone

according to anthropologist dr. Helen Fisher there are different stages of

love the first stage is lust she states that lust is driven by testosterone in

men an estrogen in women and is what Spurs our sexual desire to our partners

when we first meet them the second stage is attraction the feeling of attraction

has the same effect that drugs or alcohol has on our brain during this

stage our brains release chemicals which give us a feeling of euphoria these

chemicals include adrenaline dopamine and norepinephrine this is what makes

the feeling of falling in love feel like a rush when people start falling in love

it releases dopamine into their brains which give them that feeling of intense

pleasure the final stage of love is attachment which releases oxytocin also

known as the cuddle hormone this occurs when you begin to start forming a close

bond with someone and start making longer-term plans with each other for

the future when people start falling in love with each other lots of things go

into our brains the release of different chemicals in our brains create feelings

of excitement and anticipation in our bodies that make falling in love seem

like an absolutely exhilarating experience and when it comes to

relationships the true love that you share is distinctly your own and cannot

be measured or compared to that of anyone else each relationship is unique

and shouldn't be held to a standard of norm each couple and individual

expresses themselves in their own way and that's what binds us together and

help shape that love that you share true love and relationships that last go

through ups and downs and the strength of a relationship is determined by how

couples go through these ups and downs now that you've heard some short stories

about true love let us know about some of the true love experiences that you

have do you have your own unique love story that you want to share with the

world have you ever been in love have you ever had your heart broken we want

to hear your story let us know in the comment section below

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 Another plot twist from ! was surprised to learn the Bachelor host is dating entertainment journalist  "I was at a pre-SAG Awards party and they walked in together and I felt like, 'Oh, they're just here!' They know each other, so it makes sense that they walked in together, and she was like, 'No! We're dating!'" the former Bachelor contestant told Us Weekly exclusively at L*SPACE x Launch event in Santa Monica on Wednesday, January 30

"And I was like, 'Wait, what?! That's the craziest thing!'"  Despite the initial shock, Tilley, 30, added that she's "really happy for them

"  Harrison, 47, and Zima made their red carpet debut at Entertainment Weekly's pre-SAG Awards party at the Chateau Marmont in West Hollywood on Saturday, January 26

The Entertainment Tonight correspondent often covers the popular ABC dating series

Tilley told Us on Wednesday that Zima already "gets all the inside scoop."  The Who Wants to Be a Millionaire? host split from wife in 2012 after 18 years of marriage

The exes share daughter Taylor and son Joshua.  As for Tilley's love life, the "Scrubbing In" podcast host teased to Us that she is "very happy right now

"  "I feel like the whole dating thing is the reason that people were interested in my life originally, so you know, I kind of have taken a step back with sharing everything about my dating life just because I feel like my last relationship was very public, but I'm happy!" she explained, referring to her May 2017 split from fellow Bachelor Nation star  Tilley also addressed the possibility of her returning to reality TV and starring as the Bachelorette

 "I don't know. I just feel like I'd have a really hard time being the Bachelorette, but I don't think it would happen, but you never say never, but as of now, probably not," she told Us

"I feel like with the Bachelorette you get a great result at the end, but I think the process is way harder and I don't want that

"  With reporting by Carly Sloane