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Are you hooking up with someone, but wonder if this could be something more?

So many people are stuck in the "friends with benefits" stage, but want to turn it

into a real relationship. How do we do that though? That's exactly what we will

be discussing in today's video.

Hey everyone, welcome back to TLC Thursday. I am your host and coach for

today. My name is Christal Fuentes, Author of "How

to be H.O.T. - Your Guide to Becoming Happy, Open and Trusting in Your Relationships"

as well as the founder of TheLadiesCoach.com. A site that gives women free

resources that can make their life a little easier. Today we are going to be

talking about how a friends-with-benefits relationship can

turn into the real deal. So many women ask me if it's possible, and what I think. First of all I

think friends-with-benefits usually gets a bad rap. I think the common

misconception is that women are incapable of having sex without emotions

getting in the way. And although that could be true to some extent, that is a

very generalized statement. I think people forget that women are also sexual

creatures, and a lot of women are sexually wired. Meaning more than

anything for these women, sex gets the priority. Who's seen Sex in the City? We

all know and love Samantha right?

"Yes it was. Now if you'll excuse me I have

another tour group coming through my vagina in ten minutes."

Truth is she's not an unrelatable character, in fact lots of women relate

to her sexual drive. Everything about Samantha was the benefits of it all. With

that said, even Samantha turned a friends with benefit relationship into

real love. Now I know this is a fictional character but like I said before, she is

actually very relatable. So for all of my "benefits" babes, I want you to know that

it's definitely possible to turn a sexual relationship into true love, but

there's definitely some things we have to know and that's what we're going to

be chatting about now. Before you turn your booty-call into Prince Charming, you

have to tell the truth about what's real and what's not. If he or she is not on

same page and you know this to be true, then forcing a relationship is not going

to work. A relationship is a choice two people make to be together, not just one.

One way you could put your feelers out there, is to see if your "friend" is

initiating any quality time with you. Especially if you're dating a masculine

man, a man will usually show his interest in someone he's pursuing. But don't be

afraid to do some initiating yourself. It's obvious you both have aligned

sexual interests, but it's important to see if you guys have shared non-sexual

interest. You can do this by inviting your friend to be a part of some of the

things you enjoy doing. If you notice this person is also inviting you to do

the same, then that might be a good sign. Once you start spending more time with

each other outside of the bedroom, the next thing you can do is get to know

each other on a real level. What does this person value in life, and is it congruent

to your values? What matters most to this person and is it something you can

support? Where does this person see themselves and does it conflict with

your own vision? It's important we get more clear about who we are wanting to

jump into a potential relationship with, because the number one thing that kills

relationships most is the illusions we create about our romantic partners. The

stories and false realities we make up in order to persuade ourselves that it's

okay to jump into a relationship that may not

be right for us. So pretty much what I'm saying is tell the truth. Get to know

this person, without getting stuck on the outcome you want. When we get too

attached is when we play ourselves, and that's exactly what we don't. You

want this person to see your most authentic self, so you know they are

falling for the real you and not an illusion. Okay so now you are starting to

spend more I'm outside of the bedroom. You're

participating in each other's interests, and have aligned values and visions. The

next thing I recommend you do is ASK. It doesn't hurt asking this person where

they see this relationship going. In fact it gives you clarity for where you could

be directing your energy. Again, don't get too attached to a specific outcome

because at the end of the day you really want to make sure it's not one-sided, and

both of you are choosing to invest in this together. Even if they don't want

a committed relationship, at least you have gotten clear and aren't prolonging

a one-sided relationship. But since I like ending videos on a high note I will

say some of the most beautiful relationships I know started from a

friends with benefits. Does this help? I want to hear from you.

Do you have a friends-with-benefits story that ended up in true love? Comment

below! Also if you've gained any insight from this video and know someone who

could use this, please share it with them. As always, make sure you subscribe to

this channel and don't miss any more videos. We come out with videos every

Thursday, and head to theladiescoach.com for more resources that can

make your life a little easier. Til next time. MUAH!

For more infomation >> How to Turn "Friends with Benefits" into a Real Relationship - Dating Advice for Women - Duration: 6:32.

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TERESA GIUDICE TALKS JACQUELINE LAURITA RELATIONSHIP - Duration: 2:23.

TERESA GIUDICE TALKS JACQUELINE LAURITA RELATIONSHIP: 'I'M SO DONE

Teresa Giudice is not happy with her former co-star and friend, Jacqueline Laurita.

According to a new report, the Real Housewives of New Jersey star and mother of four recently

addressed her ongoing feud with Jacqueline Laurita during a book signing for Standing

Strong, which was released several weeks ago.

"I'm so done.

When you love somebody in your house — love your family and find out their true colors

and they're backstabbing you, it's sad.

I wish her well, I just don't want her around me anymore.

I want good energy," she revealed to Life & Style magazine on October 26.

As fans of The Real Housewives of New Jersey may recall, Teresa Giudice took aim at Jacqueline

Laurita last season by labeling her former friend as "toxic, miserable, evil, [and]

psycho."

Giudice also said that Laurita allegedly goes around hurting people and said she was a miserable

person who never left home.

She even told her co-stars that Laurita was a cuckoo bird with issues.

At last year's reunion taping for The Real Housewives of New Jersey, Teresa Giudice took

major aim at Jacqueline Laurita and Caroline Manzo, who left the show after Season 5, were

the ones who called the IRS on her and her husband, Joe Giudice.

As fans well know, both Teresa and Joe Giudice were sentenced to time behind bars for bank

and wire fraud in 2014.

At the end of 2015, Teresa Giudice began a 15-month prison term at the Danbury Correctional

Facility in Connecticut but was released to her family just 11 months later.

As for Joe Giudice, he is currently behind bars at the Fort Dix Federal Prison, where

he will serve a 41-month prison term.

"You hurt me.

You hurt my family.

You should be ashamed of you," Teresa Giudice said at the time.

"I'm so happy I got that off my chest.

I believe that.

I do believe that.

I believe it in my gut.

I feel it in my gut."

For more infomation >> TERESA GIUDICE TALKS JACQUELINE LAURITA RELATIONSHIP - Duration: 2:23.

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What's a Healthy Romantic Relationship?!? - Duration: 8:44.

For more infomation >> What's a Healthy Romantic Relationship?!? - Duration: 8:44.

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5 Relationship Lessons We Should've Been Taught in School: REAL Dating Advice for Women - Duration: 4:27.

Science, literature and math, all amazing topics that you learn in school and in recent

years we've introduced sex-ed to the equation.

Alright, so you take the penis and you take the vagina and you smash them together and

you get babies.

Any questions?

- Kid, I've been divorced four times.

How thewould I know?

Here's the problem, most teachers, they don't want to talk about love because they don't

feel like they have any wisdom to pass on to children.

So we stay away from the topic.

Here are five relationship lessons that I wish that I was taught in school.

And don't worry, even if you're 50, it's not too late to learn.

Keep watching.

Hey there, Adam Lodolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st Century woman create

a love life that she absolutely freaking loves.

And you know what?

We're gonna just jump right into this one.

Lesson number five is that, if you love and respect yourself first, a healthy relationship

will naturally come next.

Don't rely on finding someone else to love you, rely on yourself to always love yourself

unconditionally.

I really believe that love should never really complete you.

It should supplement your already amazing life.

I think a lot of younger people and older people, quite frankly, need to learn that

losing yourself in a relationship becoming a we instead of a me, can feel like this ultimate

expression of love, it's something that we see in Disney movies and something that we're

taught about this perfect idea of love, but it's not always a sign of a happily committed

couple.

And sometimes that level of intensity signals an unhealthy form of attachment.

Lesson number four, talk to strangers.

Adults tell us not to talk to strangers out of fear of what might happen.

But I think that strangers aren't necessarily the problem.

Lack of social skills are the problem.

If you don't get comfortable meeting new people as a younger person, then as you get older,

it doesn't get any easier.

Get out there, experience new people.

Be open in talking to people who have a totally different view point than yours.

People who might have different opinions than you have and people of different backgrounds.

This is going to give you those instincts as you get older to know who to trust and

who not to trust.

When it comes to love, quite frankly, the more you people meet, the more you might just

be surprised as to the type of people you may end up falling for.

Lesson number three, is that it's easy to get sucked into a bad relationship, and it's

hard asto get out of it.

We're always taught when we're younger to follow our heart, follow our emotions.

And when you fall in love, just go for it.

But rarely do we ever talk about that heart-wrenching pain that ensues when a relationship just

doesn't work out.

The pain, the confusion, the difficulty involved in getting out of the relationship.

And I'm convinced that there are just millions of people right now living in shitty relationships

just because they're afraid to break up.

I really believe that people need to be taught that breakups aren't necessarily bad.

Avoiding breakups are bad.

Lesson number two, don't marry someone until you've lived with them for at least a year.

Look, it's the 21st century and I do not believe that you should go from dating to marriage

without at least living with someone for at least a year.

Once you move in with someone people change for the good and the bad.

And when you live with them, at least you can get a feel for whether or not it's a really

good fit.

And I know some people aren't gonna like this advice.

But you know what I don't like?

The statistics about divorce.

I believe that if you just had that chance to get a feel for whether or not someone's

really a fit by living with them, you're gonna be much less likely to get divorced, later

on.

And lesson number one is that, relationships are formed in real life, not by texting, online

dating or tinder.

Now, I can't tell you how many people ask me dating questions about a person that they

met online, who they haven't yet met in real life.

And it's insane.

People who have had these online relationships going for three to five, six months, years

and beyond and people think it's a real relationship.

My advice is if you haven't met someone, if you haven't seen them, if you haven't touched

them, they do not exist in the real world.

Let me ask you.

Do you wish you were taught these lessons in school growing up?

Leave a comment right there below.

And if you agree with the lessons in this video, please share it because I know a lot

of people need to hear it.

Also, if you enjoyed this video make sure you click on that link right there or up there

or anywhere on this page and head on over to sexyconfidence.com.

We have a ton of amazing resources that are gonna help you through every single stage

of dating, relationships and finding love.

And finally, if you enjoyed the video, please give it a like on YouTube and also don't forget

to subscribe on YouTube right down there below for more videos just like this every single

Thursday.

Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you, you sexy lady, next Thursday.

Bye-bye.

For more infomation >> 5 Relationship Lessons We Should've Been Taught in School: REAL Dating Advice for Women - Duration: 4:27.

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'The Good Place' Sneak Peek: Tahani, Jason Reveal Their Relationship To Michael - Duration: 3:04.

'The Good Place' Sneak Peek: Tahani, Jason Reveal Their Relationship To Michael

Michael learns about Tahani and Jason's relationship in a sneak peek from tonight's episode of NBC's "The Good Place."

In a sneak peek from Season 2, episode 7, Tahani (Jameela Jamil) and Jason (Manny Jacinto) go to Michael's (Ted Danson) office to let him know that there may be something wrong about Janet (DArcy Carden).

"Excuse us, Michael. But we've been trying to call Janet and she's not answering," Tahani tells the afterlife architect upon their arrival at his office.

Janet, who is in Michael's office, greets the pair and quickly explains why she wasn't responding to their calls. "Hi, guys. I'm broken," the sentient database says.

Michael tells Tahani and Jason that he had taken Janet offline for a little while for a system check, adding that she should be available soon.

"Cool," Jason says. "I'm just so freakin' excited because Tahani said she's never had jalapeño poppers and I wanted to get some for her."

"It sounds so disgusting," Tahani comments. "But if Jason likes them, maybe I will, too, because we are together."

To confirm what he has just heard, Michael asks if they are sleeping together.

"Only when we're done having sex," Jason replies. "Anyway, can Janet help us?

"As soon as Michael puts me back online, I'll be more than happy to help you get that extra special gift for Tahani," Janet tells Jason.

But soon after Janet is done talking, something very weird happens: everything around them is stripped off, leaving the quartet standing in a dark empty space.

While Jason believes that they just got robbed, Michael seems to think that the latest glitch in the neighborhood has something to do with the issue Janet is experiencing.

Janet has begun to experience some weird stuff since she started to help Tahani and Jason work on their relationship in Season 2, episode 6.

When Janet said that she would "feel great" about giving the two couples therapy, her right thumb detached from her hand and flew into the air like a balloon.

When Tahani asked what was happening, Janet said that she wasn't sure. "My guess is I'm operating in a way I'm not designed for, and it's creating a small glitch," Janet said.

Later in the episode, Janet strangely threw up a frog when she told Tahani and Jason that she's happy for them. And after telling the couple the same thing a month later, the whole neighborhood was shaken by an earthquake.

While the reason behind Janet's issue remains unclear, a popular fan theory suggests that Janet can't stop glitching because she's pretending to be happy for Tahani and Jason.

As fans know, Janet was once married to Jason, and even though she has already been rebooted 802 times, series creator Michael Schur previously teased to Variety that Janet might have memories of previous events.

"The Good Place" Season 2, episode 7, titled "Janet and Michael," airs tonight at 8:30 p.m. EDT on NBC.

For more infomation >> 'The Good Place' Sneak Peek: Tahani, Jason Reveal Their Relationship To Michael - Duration: 3:04.

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The Power of Core Assets: Positive Relationship Building - Duration: 1:22.

Hey, my name is Mike. I'm a mentor with Friends the Children. We're here at Gabriel Park.

We're doing something called ice-blocking. These guys are sitting on blocks of ice and sliding down the hill.

And I think everything that we teach them, that I teach them, is all about getting along with one another.

Positive relationship building is based on one of the foundational parts of our program.

You know, everything that we do builds on the relationship that we have with one another and with the youth that we serve.

If you think about our lives and what we do professionally, even our career goals, It's all about relating with our

fellow co-workers, our supervisors, making relationships in and among the community,

even relationships interpersonally in our homes so

being able to have a positive,

positive relationship building skills at this age is an essential building block

for success going forward.

For more infomation >> The Power of Core Assets: Positive Relationship Building - Duration: 1:22.

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Camilla Thurlow doesn't feel pressure from Love Island stars over relationship with Jamie Jewitt - Duration: 2:26.

Camilla Thurlow 'doesn't feel pressure' from Love Island co-stars over relationship with Jamie Jewitt – and hasn't ruled out more reality TV

CAMILLA Thurlow has opened up about her relationship with Jamie Jewitt. Jamie Jewitt and Camilla Thurlow are still very much together [Wenn].

The Love Island stars have stayed together since leaving the villa, but have refrained from flaunting their romance on social media – meaning they are often questioned by fans if they're still together.

But Camilla Thurlow insists her and Jamie Jewitt don't let their ITV2 co-stars influence them, and they are happily taking their relationship at their own pace.

We don't feel any pressure, as long as we're happy, she admitted. We are just taking things at our own pace. Camilla Thurlow has joined Huffington Post's new docs-reality series The New Activists [HuffPost/Monkey].

I think the trick is to enjoy things as they are now, and that builds a strong foundation for the future, the 27 year old added to MailOnline.

Camilla also revealed that her family and friends really like Jamie, and they continue to support one another since leaving the villa – especially when Jamie opened up about his battle with depression.

She continued: He is great at bringing that up and asking those questions [about mental health]. He is going to make a huge difference. He has my absolute full support.. Jamie Jewitt and Camilla Thurlow found love in Love Island [ITV].

Love Island: Camilla said her and Jamie dont feel pressure from other couples[ITV]. The bomb disposal expert also explained what makes their relationship so strong is having their own interests.

On some occasions during Love Island, Camilla got emotional as she revealed her insecurities, saying she didn't feel good enough for the Calvin Klein model. But Jamie is apparently very good at perking up his other half.

Camilla Thurlow said Jamie is good at cheering her up [Camilla Thurlow/Instagram]. She said: Any woman might feel great for 12 hours in the day, but then in the evening you don't feel great about yourself. Its a very normal thing.

To give Jamie his due – he is very good at making me feel good..

Despite taking an alternative route [Camilla is now a video journalist, working with HuffPost UK] to her co-stars since leaving the villa, she hasn't ruled out appearing on reality TV again.

But the brunette beauty said she would want to know how it's edited if she were to return.

It comes weeks after Camilla and Jamie were faced with split rumours, when fans became concerned the duo hadn't been sharing frequent photos of one another on social media.

For more infomation >> Camilla Thurlow doesn't feel pressure from Love Island stars over relationship with Jamie Jewitt - Duration: 2:26.

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Man Utd star Ander Herrera insists he has a fantastic relationship with Jose Mourinho - Duration: 2:58.

Man Utd star Ander Herrera insists he has a fantastic relationship with Jose Mourinho

The United manager and the Spanish midfielder had a somewhat public spat following their sides shock defeat to Huddersfield at the weekend.

But the Red Devils returned to winning ways with a 2-0 Carabao Cup victory at Swansea on Tuesday night and Herrera was determined to silence talk of a rift between him and Mourinho.

We have a fantastic relationship, but what I said was that in the first 30 minutes they had a better attitude than us, Herrera said.

But after that we had a good attitude and we were even close to drawing the game, which is not so easy after playing bad the first 30 minutes. But now we want to forget what happened on Saturday.

"We have a fantastic relationship, but what I said was that in the first 30 minutes they had a better attitude than us." Ander Herrera We want to move forward for a massive game against Tottenham and try to win.

After the defeat at Huddersfield we needed good feelings back, because when you lose a game you want to play as quick as possible and play well. Second-placed United go into Saturdays game at Old Trafford above Spurs on goal difference.

It is the start of a huge eight days for United who welcome Benfica in the Champions League on Tuesday before hosting Chelsea the following Sunday. It is a big week, but Tottenham is our target now, Herrera said.

It is a tough game and Tottenham is a direct rival for the title. They are there every season.

In the last two or three years they have improved a lot and they are contenders for everything; for the Champions League, for both cups and for the league.

We saw the game they played with Real Madrid and they were not worse than them. So that means they are ready for anything. United kick off against Spurs at 12.30pm.

For more infomation >> Man Utd star Ander Herrera insists he has a fantastic relationship with Jose Mourinho - Duration: 2:58.

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Shin Min Ah and Kim Woo Bin's relationship as he continues with his cancer treatment. - AMAZING NEWS - Duration: 2:30.

Recent reports revealed more details on Shin Min Ah and Kim Woo Bins relationship as he continues with his cancer treatment.

Min Ah and Woo Bin have been dating for over two years, and are often called a visual couple, thanks to their good looks.

Kim Woo Bin was diagnosed with head and neck cancer earlier this year and is currently focusing on chemotherapy.

Recent photos of both of them visiting the hospital together circulated the internet, proving that Min Ah has been a great emotional support for Woo Bin.

By staying strong next to her boyfriends side, Min Ah provides both the emotional and physical support that Woo Bin needs during his toughest time.

"I saw the two of them visiting a general hospital together located in Seoul".

— Eye Witness.

Min Ah also released an official statement through her agency.

"I am helping Woo Bin with his treatments as best as I can.

— Shin Min Ah.

Fans only wish him a speedy recovery and thank Shin Min Ah for being an incredible support by his side.