RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR MEN AND WOMEN 10 Keys of How to Make a Relationship
Last Long, How to Make a Relationship Last Forever. "Psychology of Happiness"
video #32. Gi guys my name is Elena Semenek, welcome to my channel
"Psychology of Happiness," where happiness is the purpose of life! Today I'm gonna
talk about "HOW TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP LAST LONG". "HOW TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP
LAST FOREVER". I will share with you 10 Dating advice, 10 Relationship Advice
How to make your relationship happy and how to make them last forever. Let's start, so
the first rule "How to make a relationship last forever" is to go and
check my other video which is called "How to be happy in a relationship".
In that video I share five things that you should do to make your relationship happy,
and to make them last long. So I'm gonna talk today starting from step #6
and if you want to know the first five I will leave the link below this video,
make sure to watch it. ok step #6 "How to make your relationship last long"
is to create traditions, or to create memories between two of you. For example,
you can decide that every Friday you're going to a movie theater, or, for example,
every Wednesday it's gonna be your date night, or maybe once a month you go out
of town. I know a couple and they go to Hawaii one week before Christmas every
year, and all their friends, all their relatives they know that the week before
Christmas he and his wife are going to Hawaii, so create traditions create
memories, something the two of you can remember, and every year, every month you will
think, "Oh, where did you go last month? We went to this place, nice. Do you want to
go there again"? So, this way it's kind of.. you are building your relationship with your
memories. Let's move on. Step #7 -
"How to make your relationship last forever" is to give gifts. Often after
some years in relationship couples stop giving gifts to each other, and in order
to keep this passionate, loving, and caring feelings between two of you, you need to
give gifts to each other, It should be gift for the new year, for Christmas, for
Valentine's Day, for birthday, gifts creates also memories, and every time
when you give a gift a person you are saying, "I care about you, I remember about
this special day, I love you, I want to do something nice for you, I value you in my
life, and I'm showing you with this gift that I still care about you, I respect
you, I love you." Rule #8 - "How to make your relationship last forever" is
do not compare your partner with other people.
Usually, when we just start dating, for us our partner is the best, he or she is
better than everyone else, but within years, we start noticing some negative
qualities in the partner, and it's normal, so, then we start comparing the partner
with other person, and, in reality, the comparison does not really make sense
because you don't know about other persons in details as much as you know
about your partner when you compare your partner with other person you are
ruin your relationship because every relationship is unique and you cannot
compare, you cannot compare because you don't know what's happening in other
family. In reality, you only see what's happening outside, or what people are
talking about this relationship or that family, but.. in reality, you don't know the
truth, you don't know what's in their relationship, so, how you can compare?
Do not compare your partner, just appreciate what you have, and try to make
it better every day. Rule #9 of "How to make your relationship last
forever" is learn how to apologize. within years we know that our partner loves us
and we're getting used to some reactions, so, for example, if you come
home and you're tired, or maybe you are angry, you can be rude, or you can say
something in a rude way to your partner, and you're thinking that he knows
that I am in a bad mood, he knows that I'm going through the difficult time, so he
loves me anywhere, she loves me anyway, but.. in reality, yes your partner might
know what's happening with you, but you still might be hurting him or her, learn
how to apologize, if you did something and you know that it might hurt your
partner say, "You know I'm sorry, I was wrong."
So, those simple words just to say "I'm sorry, I was wrong, I was angry, I was mad,
it was not about you," they gonna make a big difference in your relationship, so..
when you're saying, "I am sorry, I was wrong," you're saying to your partner that
you care about your partner, that you noticed that you did something wrong,
you noticed that you hurt his or her feelings, you do care about what he's
thinking, what she is thinking, this way you're telling your partner, "I appreciate
you in my life, and I don't want to hurt you, I don't want you to feel bad because
I had a bad day." And the rule #10 "How to make your relationship last
forever" is to say, "I love you", and to flirt with your partner, So, say, "I love you"
and play with your partner, it does not really matter how many months or
years you are together, try to say "I love you" as many times as you can, and for
example, if we're going to work - kiss your partner and say "I love you", when you come
in from work - kiss your partner give a hug, flirt with your partner sexually,
flirt create some spark, some energy between you, and this flirting, sexual,
passionate energy will make your relationship stronger, more passionate,
more fulfilling, and they gonna last forever! Don't forget to watch other
video "How to be happy in relationship", first five steps, first five rules "How to
make your relationship last forever", Imwill leave the link below this video.
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