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If you know of any relationship

that is not currently right,

you are to endeavor yourself to mend it.

You are.

You're the one that's supposed to fix it.

If we won't, if I know

that something's wrong in a relationship

and I'm like a horse or a mule

that Psalm 32 says don't be that way -

don't be stubborn and refuse -

if I know something's wrong

and I won't fix it,

then I should stop

expecting God to speak to me;

I should stop reading books;

I should stop talking about missions;

I should stop all the talk

and first get things right

before I pursue anymore.

If God's shown me something

and I don't walk in the light of it -

I don't obey what He's shown me -

why should He say anymore to me?

Why if He puts a finger on me

about a relationship

and I know it's got to be right -

I know for sure

if John Dees and I -

which we've never had any of this -

but if we had a dilemma in our relationship

and we both knew something wasn't right between us -

I had hurt him, I had sinned against him,

or the other way around,

and we both knew we were going to

see each other today for the first time,

I promise you,

he would be coming to me,

I'd be coming to him

and we would get it right

before we started singing, wouldn't we?

How easy it is to come into church

and a relationship not be right

and then we want to sing the songs of God.

If you come to worship

and you come to bring your gift to the altar

and there remember that your brother

has ought against you,

stop your singing, stop your worship.

Go get it right and then come

and offer your gift.

How about it?

Is every relationship right?

You ought not to go to bed tonight

without making sure of it

because your bones might start rotting

and your strength might start drying up

like the heat of the summer.

If you keep silent about it -

it seems like we heard that not long ago.

You see, what happens is -

here's what we do.

There's a problem in a relationship

and we begin to rationalize and justify

and make mental excuses.

"Well, it will take care of itself."

No, it won't.

"Well, it will create more problems

than it will solve if I go to him."

No, it won't.

"Well, it's just going to have to be that way."

No, it doesn't.

"Well, there's been too much time passed."

No, there hasn't.

"Well, there's too many differences between us."

No, there are not.

Maybe I've left out your excuse,

but still the answer is

it is always right, always right,

to make things right.

It is always wrong to leave a relationship

damaged somehow.

And the reason some true Christians

won't get relationships right -

I think there's three major reasons.

Number one, it's too scary.

It's scary to go to someone

and say, brother,

I think there's been something between us.

It isn't right.

I'm sorry. I don't want that to be that way.

It's scary to do that, isn't it?

It is.

It's fearful.

It's way outside some people's comfort zones to do that.

It scares people to initiate making things right.

Secondly, it's too painful to go

and to say, listen,

we've not been right in our relationship.

It's too painful for some people.

Thirdly, some people are just too proud.

They want to leave it on the other person.

The other person may not even know there's a problem.

And you've wronged them,

and you feel like you've sinned against them,

or you feel legitimately that they did wrong you,

but you're too proud to go.

Too scared, too painful, too proud.

And so you leave it undone.

Listen, things undealt with

will only do damage down the road.

To hear the remainder of the sermon,

search for "Every Relationship Right."

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8 Types Of Hugs And What They Say About Your Relationship - Duration: 8:39.

eight types of hugs and what they say about your relationship there are many

ways to describe a relationship you could describe it by a kiss you could

describe it by interests and you can describe it by opposites but did you

know that you could also describe it by a hug

there are many different ways you can hug your partner but one you use most

dominantly is what describes your relationship best

so whether you like to give your partner big bear hugs or more of a soft hug the

weight you hug the person you love can say a lot about the place your

relationship is in keep watching for different types of hugs you can give

your boyfriend or girlfriend and each of them tells a different tale of what type

of relationship you have before we begin this video don't forget to subscribe to

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never miss our new videos number eight the bear hug the bear hug is also known

as the deadlock hug the tight squeeze is filled with emotions that scream I'll

never let you go this type of hug implies that your relationship is

serious and it's filled with everlasting emotion when a couple gives each other a

bear hug it is a sign of affection that they love each other and don't want to

let each other go there's just something about being wrapped in someone else's

arms that is comforting warm and loving this type of hug is usually only shared

between a couple that is very much in love and represents the affection in

love they have for one another the bear hug is very common at the beginning of a

happy relationship and is also very common for people in love who haven't

seen each other in a long time however if this hug is persistent in a mature

happy relationship it could indicate the fear of loss number 7 the polite hug if

your boyfriend or girlfriend hugs you and leave space between the hug

especially in the lower body it's a direct sign that your partner feels

uncomfortable with you this might be the type of hug that a couple gives to each

other just after they've gotten into a it usually means there's some kind of

distance or unresolved issue that they have not come to an agreement on when a

couple is fighting and they give each other this type of hug it is usually

only done out of politeness and there's usually no emotion or affection

associated with it most commonly these type of pugs happen after a fight or

dispute happens between two partners but if they happen for no reason it's a sign

that your partner does not want to come close to you if you or your partner are

arguing or are not on the best of terms but still want to show respect by

hugging this is probably the type of hug you'd give if you are not on the best of

terms with your boyfriend or girlfriend try to think about resolving your issues

number six legs around the waist hug this hug when

a boyfriend or girlfriend jumps up and wraps their legs around you signifies a

deep attraction and intense passion towards the other partner couples who

hug each other like this are typically very close to one another they have a

very strong and intimate connection and it shows in the way they display their

affection towards one another their physical closeness is very strong and

they have an intense passion and not many other couples share this is a type

of hug that couples who are very much in love share with one another number five

the stand still hug this type of hug is when one partner

squeezes and hugs with their entire mind while the other partner doesn't even

lift an arm this is a sign of a lack of reciprocation the reason for the lack of

reciprocation could be that the partner may not be into the whole relationship

idea while the other one is it's best to confront the partner who is not showing

any love and find out what's wrong when a couple hugs each other this way it

might also mean that the partner who is not reciprocating the hug maybe feeling

signs of resentment the couple may be arguing over something or they may also

have some unresolved issues that they have not worked out between them it is

always best to communicate with each other if you're experiencing issues with

your partner so that the small problems don't turn into big problems are you

curious about what science says that hugs reveal about

your relationship stick around until the end to find out number four the intimate

hug hugging and making direct eye contact with the partner is a sign of

great intimacy and a beautiful connection it has been said that eye

contact is a sign of interest and great emotion so when you combine that with a

hug you know you've got something special when a couple locks eyes with

one another they share a strong and deep connection that only two people who are

in love can share and when a couple shares this type of hug while locking

eyes with one another they are affectionately showing each other that

they love one another unconditionally this type of intimate hug also leads to

a kiss which is another sign of affection if you are lucky enough to

experience a hug like this often in your happy relationship - you are lucky

because there are not many people that get to experience it often or at all

number three the buddy hug hugging your partner from the side with your arm

directly over their shoulder means that you not only value them as an intimate

partner but you completely trust them as your best friend it's been said that

love is not enough in a relationship and there is some truth to that when you

have a best friend you trust each other and are there for each other by hugging

your partner like this it will signify that without even saying it this type of

hug can be done when a couple is walking down the street or maybe even standing

beside each other in a social function if a couple is at a social dinner and

are sitting beside each other one partner may put their arm around the

other partner as a sign of affection this lets the other partner know that

they're always right beside them and is another sign of affection that shows how

much they love one another number two the back hug this type of hug

occurs when one partner has their back turned and the other grabs them from the

back with their arms wrapped around their shoulders this type of hug shows

trust and protection the partner who has their back turn trust the other enough

to do that the hugger offers protection by showing that they have their back

this hug is very similar to the bear hug it is an affectionate hug that shows

that two people are in love with each other the person giving this type of hug

wants to show their partner that they are there to protect them no matter what

they want to be there for their partner and show it by giving them a hug that

represents love they have for the other person number one the pampered hug

this type of hug signifies a deep caring nature and is usually followed by a kiss

to the forehead this type of hug is usually given by a more elderly person

this is not to say that the type of hug doesn't happen in relationships but it's

just not as common as some of the other strong ones but this is not to say that

you shouldn't use it it's always good to reassure your partner that you have a

caring nature now that you know what eight different types of hugs say about

your relationship here's what scientists say that those hugs mean about your

relationship according to psychology today when you hug someone it makes the

body produce oxytocin this calms the nervous system and also creates a

feeling of relaxation oxytocin is also known to reduce blood pressure as well

as heart stress so keep hugging the people you love if you want to feel the

effects of relaxation and it's stress-free life the more you know which

type of hug do you commonly use when you embrace your partner where we right

about any of the types of hugs and what they say about your relationship let us

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Something needed to change. Gisele Bündchen revealed she was partying too much and overworking herself during her relationship with Leonardo DiCaprio.

"No longer numbing myself with smoking, drinking and too much work, I was becoming more and more aware of things that I'd chosen not to look at," the supermodel, 38, told PORTER Opens a New Window.

magazine in a story published on Friday, February 1, about her split from the actor. "Was I alone in wanting to do some serious soul-searching while he stayed the same? In the end, unfortunately, the answer was yes.".

Bündchen and DiCaprio, 44, dated from 2000 to 2005. She previously addressed their relationship and subsequent breakup in her 2018 memoir, Lessons: My Path to a Meaningful Life.

"I had been smoking cigarettes, drinking a bottle of wine and three mocha Frappuccinos every day, and I gave up everything in one day.

I thought, if this stuff is in any way the cause of this pain in my life, it's gotta go," she wrote.

"Everyone who crosses our path is a teacher, they come into our lives to show us something about ourselves. And I think that's what [Leo] was. What is good versus bad?". Bündchen added: "I honour him for what he was.

Following her split from DiCaprio, the Brazilian model started dating Tom Brady. Shortly after the duo met through friends in December 2006, they made their relationship public in February 2007. Two years later, Bündchen married the NFL quarterback.

Bündchen and Brady are parents of son Benjamin, 9, and daughter Vivian, 6. The New England Patriots star also shares 11-year-old son John Edward Thomas Moynahan with ex Bridget Moynahan.

(Moynahan found out she was pregnant after their split.) In Bündchen's aforementioned book, she called her husband's eldest son her "bonus child.".

"Two months into our relationship, Tom told me that his ex-girlfriend was pregnant. The very next day, the news was everywhere and I felt my world had been turned upside down," Bündchen wrote.

After Jack was born, however, he "made [her] heart expand in ways [she] didn't know was possible.". DiCaprio, meanwhile, is dating model Camila Morrone.

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5 Words & Phrases You Must AVOID in Your Relationship (Animated Video) - Duration: 7:07.

5 WORDS/PHRASES TO AVOID IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Someone said, "Words are not hurtful, unless they come from those who mean a lot to you."

Invariably, it implies that within the bounds of a relationship, the words uttered have

immense effect on the person that received them, for good or for bad.

It is incredible that what people always hold close to their hearts are those things that

made them feel somehow.

Any other word of less impact isn't remembered.

Relationships have become broken in strange and unpleasant manners over words spoken,

albeit innocuously.

Ironically, those words were not in complex sentences or in flamboyant vocabularies.

In this video, we'll be sharing with you, 5 words or phrases to avoid in a relationship.If

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like this.

1.

"Shut up!"

That's right.

Shut up: the phrase that is common in most unhealthy arguments.

Not knowing when talks have become very much heated, and the need to apply some levels

of restraint, it is easy to drop the bombshell that literally means "keep quiet" but

is translated as "your words are irritable and mean nothing".

Rather than saying shut up, it is reasonable to use lighter sentences like, "Can you

hear me out?"

"Can you please, keep quiet?"

After such requests have being made, give him or her time to react by staying quiet

yourself.

Fights are part of a relationship; shut up should not complicate issues.

2.

I don't care Well, whether you mean it or not, saying "I

don't care" to your significant other is not only annoying; it is also calamitous.

Even when you don't feel like being supportive, do not voice out such, especially when your

partner's nerves are frayed already.

I don't care means a lot of things, chief being you owe your partner no respect for

their feelings.

Others are: • They are on their own.

• Whatever they do is not your problem.

• They are good without you.

• They should not involve you further in that pressing issue.

• You have nothing you wish to contribute to them.

• You have abandoned them to their fate.

By and large, promising someone your commitment in a relationship does not entertain any form

of rejection from you.

I don't care is the condensed form of rejection.

And resentment.

3.

I want a break up Making a pervasive habit of saying you would

break up with your partner anytime you have issues between the both of you, may eventually

see you heading in different directions.

At first, it is terrifying to your partner especially at the thought of living without

you.

But with time, they will make up their minds to go on with their lives when you make good

your threat.

Many at times, the plan to shake a partner up a bit results in irreparable damages.

Some people have taken the threat too far, and left without any chance of an explanation

from the giver.

If you do not mean to break up, don't bring it up.

Let it be where it has been lying, far away from your relationship.

Unless you mean it.

4.

Do whatever Anyway, we hope you will be pleased with the

outcome.

Saying the above clearly shows another form of abandonment of your partner.

They could have asked for your contribution or suggestion concerning something dear to

them.

Instead of actively being involved, and letting them know what you think of it, you dismiss

them by saying, "Do whatever."

The very sensitive ones could hurt for days unending, and may not carry on with their

plans.

For those who are stronger, it is their time to go solo with the plans and the outcomes.

Already, you must have lost a companion and a loyal friend in them.

5.

You are stupid!

The freedom you share with a significant other is not a leeway to belittle them.

When annoyed by your partner, it lies on you to be careful with that which you say to them,

regardless of the size of the annoyance.

"You are stupid!"

"You are pathetic!"

"You are useless!"

"You are wicked!" have trailed many relationship breakups.

What is most painful is the feeling that words spoken are reflections of what the mind/heart

bears.

The impression you are giving your partner, so to say, is that they are not worth anything

to you, and are hated by the one who claimed to love them.

At that moment when anger must have ebbed away, reality of the damage done in less than

ten minutes will keep being real after the relationship must have ended.

If you did not mean to say it, or you did mean to say it, there has never being a time

words said during heated arguments ever solved problems.

No matter how pressing an issue is, there is nothing as important as keeping your relationship

stronger and better.

A good percentage of homes and unions have become history as a result of words said to

one another in times when emotions were left unguarded.

Mentally screening words that jump into your thoughts, pausing before speaking, listening

thoroughly to understand where a talk is headed toward, biting your tongue when bad words

are threatening to be pushed out, or simply walking away when an atmosphere is becoming

argumentative, will save you the stresses of apologising endlessly, while leaving your

partner with a broken spirit.

Indeed, words are arts in marbles.

They provoke feelings that are inexplicable, yet, long-lasting.

Words have put people to war, and have ended wars.

Avoid saying shut up, I don't care, I want a break up, Do whatever, and You are stupid!

in your relationship.

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