Body Language Signs Your Relationship Is Doomed
How many times have you heard that your body language talks more than your tongue?
Don't answer that, because it's tons of times!
It is a well-known fact that body language plays an important role in expressing your
feelings, in fact when words fail to convey the message, actions will do the talking!
This gives birth to a new saying, "Lips lie but hips don't lie"!
That was a bad one but bear with us!
Anyway, the point is that often times our partners cannot put their thoughts to words
and that's exactly when we gotta decode the truth behind their non-verbal cues.
You aren't alone in this, hold our hand and allow us to guide you through this dark
patch in your relationship!
Number 1.
Growing apart Every other couple these days is breaking
up because they apparently grew apart!
While this focuses on emotional distance, it won't harm to look at it from a physical
perspective.
When you are in an intimate relationship, you would want to physically stay closer to
your better half.
Ideally the distance between you two would be no more than 16inches when you are together.
But what happens when the distance exceeds 18inches?
Maintaining such a distance is an indication that your partner doesn't want to touch
you and that my friends, isn't music to your ears!
When your partner is always trying to avoid physical contact with you, it is probably
time to ponder why you are in this relationship at all!
Number 2.
Difference in touch Your partner doesn't necessarily have to
stop touching you altogether to make you realize that they aren't interested in you anymore.
Sometimes changing the way they touch you can say a lot.
Imagine that they are still touching you from time to time but in a less intimate way.
Confused?
We mean that instead of hugging and caressing you, they just pat your head.
This would have been the ideal physical contact between two friends but if you haven't forgotten
yet- guys you are more than friends, right?
The problem here is that this change in their way of touching is so gradual that you won't
realize until it's too late!
Number 3.
Reduced empathy This is one of the things that goes unnoticed
easily and you would only understand it after your relationship has come to an end!
What do you do when you partner is in some sort of emotional or physical pain?
When you are in love, you cannot bear your partner's distress and jump up to comfort
them.
This happens majorly because we have a tendency of feeling the pain of our loved ones like
it's our own.
But if you realize that your partner isn't able to grasp that you are in distress, it
could mean that they cannot feel your pain anymore.
You know what this is- a red flag!
Number 4.
A different pace You will often overlook this sign because
looks like a petty issue, totally not worth fighting for.
But such subtle issues can have deeper meanings that need to be decoded before it is too late!
So imagine a scenario, you are out on the street with your partner and he is walking
fast and you are practically being dragged along because that isn't just your pace!
Let's hope this never happens to you because it is more irritating than you will ever accept.
This behavior of your partner shows that you two are out of sync.
You probably have never actively noticed this but lovers tend to walk at the same pace with
synced steps and when it doesn't happen, it could be indicating at unresolved underlying
issues!
Number 5.
Smirking Now in general smirking doesn't sound like
a relationship wrecker, does it?
But think about the condescending smile in a different light.
Such a smile represents the attitude of patronizing superiority.
Why would your partner showcase superiority over you when a relationship puts the two
partners on an equal pedestal?
Simple, your partner isn't concerned about you much.
We know it is hard to stomach but the sooner you realize, the sooner you can get out of
this suffocating and toxic relationship!
Number 6.
Lack of eye contact Do you know why the immensely mushy movies
show the couple staring into each other's eyes?
If you've been in a romantic relationship, you know that looking into the eyes of your
lover is intimate.
Now before you enter a marathon of eye to eye and spend hours at it, know that when
this acts causes your eyes to get teary, they won't look sexy at all!
We sense that you didn't laugh so moving on from the sad joke, eye contact shows emotional
openness and is thus so important in a relationship.
But when you stop getting an eyeful of bae's eyes, your relationship is dicey.
It is time for you to switch on your FBI mode and look for the one who's drowning in their
eyes and beat the shit out of them!
Number 7.
Public humiliation Has your partner ever shamed you in public?
This does not necessarily involve words though words would do a fabulous job here!
Now imagine you are hosting a party and your better half decides to invite your ex as well,
the one who dumped you in the worst way possible.
It might be funny for them but they've ruined the entire evening for you, ouch!
But if your partner is airing your dirty laundry in front of your friends, that's next level
embarrassment and it doesn't even require anyone to speak!
Don't worry if this ever happens to you, an apology will soon follow but the problem
is that the mistake will be repeated again and again in newer ways because it wasn't
just an accident!
It's the evidence of a fragile ego and deep-seated self-hatred.
Thinking that your love can change such behavior is nothing but delusion and the situation
will only turn more miserable with time.
Number 8.
Indifference Firstly we fail to understand why people choose
to continue a relationship even after they've stopped caring for their partner!
Like come on, you've done enough damage already, why do you want to make things worse
for them?
Now if you are one of those people who are constantly giving their partners the benefit
of doubt or just more chances in general, you are just fooling yourself!
If instead of looking at you when you are talking, they have their eyes glued to their
phones or they interrupt you before you've finished talking or spending most of their
time away from you, things are going downhill!
They may not be doing this intentionally but when a person loses interest or feelings in
their partner, they unconsciously show their indifference.
If you've been subjected to this, walk out before it's too late!
Which of these body language signs have you seen in your partner?
Tell us in the comment section below.
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