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Raising Awareness and Developing Disability Cultural Competence in the Supervisory Relationship - Duration: 54:45.

broadcast is now starting all attendees

are in listen-only mode alright hello

everyone welcome to today's webinar on

raising awareness and developing

disability cultural competence in the

supervisory relationship my name is

Kristen Dempsey and I'm the assistant

director of professional psychology

programs in the education Directorate

here at APA

thanks so much all for joining in today

before we begin let me mention a few

housekeeping details today's webinar

will be one hour for anyone who would

like to follow along during the

presentation you can find a copy of

today's transcript under the handouts

pane of the control panel you'll receive

an email with a link to view a recording

of today's webinar on YouTube later this

month

you'll have the opportunity to submit

text questions to today's presenters by

typing your questions into the questions

pane of the control panel you may send

in your questions at any time during the

webinar and we'll address them during

the Q&A session at the end of the

presentation so without any further delay

please join me in welcoming our

three presenters dr.

Rebecca Wilber is a

licensed clinical psychologist on staff

at legacy good samaritan Medical Center

in Portland with specialized training in

neuropsychology and rehabilitation

psychology dr.

Angela Kimmel is an early

career rehabilitation psychologist in

spinal cord injuries and disorders and

the assistant director of psychology

training and education at the Louis

Stokes Cleveland VA Medical Center dr.

Eric Samuels is a licensed clinical

psychologist with a private

psychotherapy practice in downtown

Oakland in the Castro and an adjunct

professor at the American School of

Professional Psychology at Argosy

University in San Francisco with that

I'll turn it over to you dr. Wilbur

thank you we're very happy to give this

lecture we appreciate a APA's public

interest and the APA education

Directorate in their support of cultural

competence and including disability as

an important and valuable aspect of

diversity dr. Kimmel and I started this

work at the Louis Stokes Cleveland VA

and quickly found a real need for

further education and support in this

area we did a research project to learn

more about the current state of

psychology supervisors and their

knowledge and awareness of disability

and disability related issues such as

the Americans with Disabilities Act also

known as the ADA a

as well as reasonable accommodations

since we began presenting our findings

we've received great reception from the

training and supervision community and

recognition for the need for more

opportunities to grow awareness in

supervising trainees with disabilities

we feel is important to review our

learning objectives and provide some

context for a presentation our

overarching goal is to reduce bias and

harmful practices in education and

reduce health care access disparities

for students with disabilities our

objectives will increase supervisors and

educators awareness of disability

discuss the basic terminology on

disability issues understand the unique

challenges and socio-political concerns

that trainees with disabilities face

list applicable information about the

American Disabilities Act identify

common misperceptions that lead to

harmful practices in training and

associated inequities and disparities in

education and healthcare access identify

steps to establish accommodations and

how that applies in the supervisory

relationship and finally describe ways

to reduce bias in supervisory practices

essentially this project offers a model

to help supervisors avoid biased

practices that are harmful against

trainees with disabilities and provides

guidance in supporting supervisors

efforts to cultivate trainees

development and produce valuable new

professionals in their respective fields

first dr.

Eric Samuels will start with

some definitions and statistics about

disability in the United States and in

the field of psychology the 2010 u.s.

census found that 19 percent of the u.s.

population identifies as having a

disability however the number of

psychologists who identify as having a

disability is considerably lower

APA's 2015 workforce survey of psychology

health service providers found that only

5.8 percent of psychologists identify as

people with disabilities and though the

Americans with Disabilities Act

provides protections to individuals with

disabilities how a disability is defined

matters according to the ADA a person

with a disability is a person who has an

impairment that substantially limits a

major life activity and either has a

record of such impairment or is known to

have such an impairment in 1990 major

life activities included seeing hearing

walking caring for oneself learning

breathing and working and effective in

2009 the ADA broadened these interpretations

and added examples of major

life activities which included but was

not limited to performing manual tasks

eating sleeping standing lifting bending

speaking reading concentrating thinking

and communicating as well as the

operation of several specified major

bodily function in regards to what a

record of an impairment is an example

could be a history of depression even if

it's not currently limiting a major

life activity and regarded as having an

impairment for example could be a facial

figuration that doesn't limit a major

life activity but is otherwise regarded

as impairing the individual could be

qualified as an individual with

disability under the ADA there are two

important disability definitions to know

the first is visible disability which is

any observable indication of a

functional limitation that impacts daily

life and may include physical changes to

the body or the use of assistive devices

some examples are spinal cord injury or

multiple sclerosis

then there's invisible disability which

is any condition including physical or

mental that may not be immediately

discernible but that impacts functioning

or leads to limitations in daily life

examples are chronic pain rheumatoid

arthritis traumatic brain injury but

also serious mental illness like

schizophrenia in order to understand how

disability may affect the supervisory

relationship is first important to

understand the unique challenges and

socio-political concerns that trainees

with disabilities face disability is a

culture the most difficult challenges

for persons with disability involves the

social stigma and discrimination not the

physical or mental challenges associated

with the person's condition essentially

the biggest challenges of having a

disability are the physical and

attitudinal barriers that exist in

society not managing the disability

itself people with disabilities are

often viewed as pitiable particularly if

they use visible assistive devices such

as a wheelchair or as abusing the system

such as if someone receives

accommodations like extra flexible time

and assignments or work shifts due to

chronic illness such as if the person

had a ADA/ADHD or diabetes the cumulative

effect of such negative attitudes

referred to as microaggressions by

Keller and Galgay leads to the

oppression of persons with disability

psychologists themselves are not immune

to bias and prejudice towards people

with disability so for example how many

of us have flown on an airplane

I'm guessing that's many of us on this

call today how many of us who have flown

in an airplane had your legs broken by

the air carrier I'm guessing not a lot

of us but most people who use power

wheelchairs have even though we have the

air carrier Access Act almost everyone

who uses a power wheelchair has had

their chair broken or mangled by the air

carrier which led to delays or even

being stranded that's what I'm talking

about when I talk about the

discrimination that people with

disabilities experience it's about

having basic rights and enjoyments taken

away because of inaccessible

environments and attitudes I'm starting

with the premise that disability

is an aspect of diversity to have a

disability places one in a minority

group not by numbers because this

includes about 20% of the u.s.

population but by social stigma social

stigma and inaccessibility both physical

environment and attitudinal barriers are

the biggest challenges to persons with

disability this perspective is part of

the minority model or social model of

disability and is the basic values on

which this research and this

presentation is based so we add this mix

of stigma to supervision so disability

awareness is equal to diversity

awareness so the most important thing

for everyone to take away from this

lecture is that disability competence is

about awareness disability awareness is

as to diversity awareness we can give

you some good information and a place to

start but really I want to clarify the

real message and purpose of this webinar

this is essentially a type of diversity

lecture according to dr.

Derald Wing Sue

the first steps to raising ones cultural

awareness is to develop knowledge

awareness and skills the only way to

really do that is to really wrestle with

these issues so knowledge awareness

skills now wrestle with that this

webinar can give you a starting point

but you won't get everything from this

60 minute lecture to illustrate a

real-life example of what discrimination

may look like in psychology training we

provide several vignettes.

dr. Kimmel will introduce our first

vignette as I read the following

vignette think about the attitudes and

beliefs that caused the following

harmful supervision experience to occur

a practicum student with quadriplegia was

training at an outpatient mental health

center intakes at the center involve

cognitive and psychological testing emma

has completed

all necessary coursework for

intelligence testing and diagnosis and

treatment planning

however due to Emma's reduced hand

functioning and fine motor deficits her

supervisor is concerned that Emma will

not be able to confidently administer

the cognitive testing she will not

release Emma to do any testing until she

has had time to sit down and watch Emma

administer a complete battery doctoral

interns provide umbrella supervision at

this site and the supervisor has

instructed them to train the other

practicum students in the tests but not

Emma.

Emma's supervisor's biases about

disability led her to make assumptions

about Emma's abilities fortunately for

Emma

the interns at the site

believed their supervisor was

discriminating against her on a basis of

disability and went to their training

director to report this and determine a

better resolution now think about what you do if

you were in the room as I go through this vignette

students with invisible or less visible

disabilities might also experience

harmful practices during their graduate

training and education here's an example

ben is a clinical psychology doctoral

student with multiple sclerosis applying

for internships.

due to fear that sites

might judge him negatively for having MS

Ben decides not to disclose this

condition in any of his internship

application materials.

John is on the

internship review panel at one of the

sites were Ben applied.

during a review

of internship applicants with a review

panel John raises questions about one of

Ben's recommendations letters

in that letter

the recommender discussed how

well ben manages his responsibilities

while dealing with having multiple

sclerosis John asked the others on the

internship panel if the site can

realistically offer accommodations for

Ben's condition and starts guessing

what he thinks Ben would need like

working half days with half of the

typical workload and no

integrated assessment reports

the other committee members point out

their site could not take on an intern

who needed these types of accommodation

the director of training at the site

reminds the panel that a candidate's

disability cannot be used to judge an

applicant but also states that it is

concerning the student withheld this

information from his application what

else is he hiding because of these

concerns Ben's raking with an internship

review panel dropped

we've now seen two scenarios of how

trainees with visible and invisible

disability may experience disability

bias and harm in the training

environment as we know supervision is

central to training and there is much

research to show that negative

supervisory relationships have severe

detrimental effects on trainees.

the

factors that lead to difficult

supervisor relationships include

insensitivity, bias, and lack of awareness.

early research on supervision of

students with disabilities found that

clinical supervision is the worst part

of training in psychology for students

with disabilities due to prejudicial and

discriminatory behavior from the

supervisors, of which you now know two

real-life examples.

they found that the

supervisors thought that supervisees

must prove they can handle their

disability in a clinically appropriate

manner should they get questions about

it from clients or prospective clients.

Olkin advocates that supervisors should

give supervisees with disabilities the

same opportunity to be good, lousy, or

mediocre, just like any other trainee, and

not treat supervisees with disabilities

differently.

a very common concern that

comes up often in the supervisory

relationship is asking trainees to

disclose their disability to clients

before their first session or during

their first session.

but why would a

supervisor ask a trainee to do that? it's

evidence of the common perception that

working with a therapist with a

disability is going to inherently be bad

for the client, however the research does

not substantiate this.

in 2011,

Daniel Taube and Rhoda Olkin studied

whether a supervisor should require that

their supervisee with a disability

should disclose their disability to new

clients before the first meeting so that

the client is able to decide whether

they want to work with the supervisee.

they studied legal standards, ethical

guidelines, and clinical, professional, and

social justice issues.

similar to the

research of working with a

therapist of a different race Taube and

Olkin found that is not inherently bad

for a client to work with a therapist

with a disability, but this practice is

another example of the barriers that

arise in a supervisory relationship for

trainees with disabilities.

literature on

trainees with disabilities shows that

trainees are reporting concerning

experiences of disability bias in their

training and in their supervisory

relationships.

over 80% of trainees

experienced disability related barriers

including inaccessible training

environments, an inappropriate pressure

to disclose one's disability to clients

or prospective clients.

a third reported

mixed or negative reactions upon

disclosing their disability to faculty.

these negative or mixed reactions

included biased or uncomfortable remarks

or assumptions from supervisors and

colleagues.

discrimination may occur at

every step in the graduate school

process.

graduate school applications,

practicum training, graduate school

coursework and requirements, internship

application, or postdoctoral training, and

it may take the form of vague forms, lack

of accommodations, or outright

discrimination, such as barring a trainee

from a training experience based on his

or her disability status.

so who are

these trainees with disability anyway?

well according to APPIC data from 2010

2011 and 2012 match cycles, the most

common types of disabilities reported by

trainees were chronic health conditions,

learning disabilities, and mental illness.

so what do all of these have in common?

all of them are invisible disabilities.

so having awareness about disability, and

that the disability may be visible or

invisible, is crucial for all supervisors

because any trainee could be affected or

become part of this culture,

which we hope we have pointed out by

this point can impact the supervisory

relationship.

so students need to disclose to

get accommodations and everything will

be fine right?

so why is this even a

problem?

well disclosure and asking for

accommodations and the right

accommodations is actually a very tricky

process.

to illustrate this I would like

to read you a short passage by dr.

Rhoda

Olkin's 2011 article "when is differential

treatment discriminatory legal ethical

and professional considerations for

psychology trainees with disabilities".

in

the article dr.

Olkin provides a scenario

of a trainee with disability in

supervision, and then writes, "navigating

the clinical and supervisory issues

related to her disability requires

exceptional maturity on sarah's part.

she

is required not only to learn clinical

skills as our other trainees, but also to

be well versed in her disability and the

reasonable accommodations that benefit

her.

additionally she has to be capable

of discussing her disability openly, and

in a non defensive way, even in light of

others' prejudice.

then she has to

consider the potential responses of

clients, and handle those in a clinically

appropriate and professional manner.

she is unlikely to have any role models

in her training related to these tasks.

it is not only maturity that is required

of Sarah, but more clinical acumen that a

trainee is likely to possess at this

point.

this makes her vulnerable to

suggestions or mandates by her

supervisor, even if those suggestions are

prejudicial, discriminatory, and deeply

distressing." this leads us to a

discussion about disclosure and

reasonable accommodations.

it's not so

simple.

the recommendations are that

students must self-identify with

disability, ask for accommodations or

indicate a need. for those with invisible

disability, they must also provide

documentation at the student's expense

to establish the existence of the

disability, and all parties must

demonstrate the need for accommodation.

however in the recent article by Lund, Andrews, and Holt, described above,

one third of those who disclose their

disability reported mixed or negative

reactions upon disclosing their

disability to faculty.

so the only way to

get accommodations that a trainee needs

is to set oneself up for possible harm,

or bias, or at least mixed or negative

reactions from supervisors or those in

authority over them.

supervisors may

harbor disability biases that vary

across disabilities.

just because you

aren't biased towards one disability

doesn't mean you won't be biased towards

another.

countertransference issues and

supervisory relationships with students

with disabilities, like clients,

supervisors may become overly concerned

about a trainees welfare or feel a sense

of having to care for them.

results from

a research study recently submitted

for publication by dr. Wilbur and myself,

show that supervisors rated themselves

as feeling not competent to supervise

students with disabilities.

they felt

overwhelmed and they were concerned

about trainees meeting expectations.

also if a trainee teaches a supervisor

about their disability, the natural power

dynamic is shifted.

supervisors may feel

discomfort and begin to react defensively to

the trainee, and disability biases emerge.

unfortunately supervisors often

tell their supervisees to disclose their

disability to potential clients before

the first session.

my own experience is

represented in this vignette. as I go

through this vignette consider the

following question,

recognizing that supervisors have power

over their supervisees, how should the

supervisor handle the situation in the

future in order to create a more

collaborative relationship.

Eric is a

clinical psychology doctoral student in

his second year who has Tourette

syndrome that manifests itself in facial

tics, grimacing, and movement of his head

and neck.

Eric starts his second-year

clinical practicum at

a community mental health agency after having not

disclosed his Tourette's during the

competitive application and interview

process.

in his first meeting with his

supervisor, eric discloses having Tourette's

to his supervisor.

his

supervisor responds that he would like Eric to

disclose having Tourette's syndrome to every

single client that Eric is assigned to

work with during the first session of

therapy.

his supervisor expresses the concern that

Eric's potential clients might be

bothered by his tics and have a right to

make an informed decision as to whether

they'd want to continue working with

Eric as early in the therapeutic process

as is possible.

as this is all occurring

during Eric's first meeting with his new

supervisor, and due to the fact that he's

only a second-year student in his

program, eric is not sure how to respond,

and he obviously worries about how his supervisor

might respond to him

if Eric were to push back on this

request, or file a complaint with the

training co-directors.

in order for any

of the accommodations to work, trainees

must first identify with having a

disability, which in itself may not

always be easy, especially in the case of

individuals with invisible or

less visible disabilities.

some

disabilities may be more culturally

accessible, like depression, than others,

like substance abuse.

disabilities as

well may fluctuate as is the case with

chronic pain.

ultimately, different

factors impact a person's disability

identity.

these factors can be personal

and cultural, as well as a person's

actual disability. for people who have

invisible or less visible disabilities,

their ability to pass as able bodied

might afford them protection from bias

and discrimination from society.

however,

these people might have more difficulty

accessing accommodations and will have

to constantly disclose their disability to

others in relation to people with

visible disabilities.

the decision as to

whether or not to disclose is a constant

struggle that people with disabilities

have to face and how much a supervisee

identifies with their disability can

have a varying amount of impact upon

their training experience.

ultimately, students with disabilities

need to make decisions about whether

they want to disclose the disability

to supervisors and clients and whether

they want to request accommodations. when

they think about whether or not they

want to do this they will consider how

they believe that their request for

accommodations will be received, and

whether this disability can be

accommodated at all.

the ways in which

they identify as having disability might

also impact their ability to develop a

necessary support network as they'll

need to get through the challenging

demands of a doctoral program.

their

disability might also impact their

professional views of

themselves, as well as their thoughts

about professional opportunities that

will be available to them.

they'll wonder

about how the disability might impact

their work with clients.

identity is

different from adjustment.

for example, a

trainee may completely identify with

having a disability and feel completely

integrated with that identity, but

experience bias or are denied reasonable

accommodations, who are stressed from

experiencing discrimination or prejudice.

this is not an adjustment problem or an

identity problem.

the supervisors role is

to understand the factors that influence

the trainees with Disabilities identity

development.

what happens when

supervisors use clinical concepts to

understand their supervisees

disability?

well this is a cause for

multiple relationships boundary

disturbance to form or even a conflict

of interest and the impact on the

training with disabilities is belittling

let's talk about reasonable

accommodations and the cultural

challenges attached to them I'll start

with a quote that serves as an example

of a common type of of Tobias about

reasonable accommodations this came from

an article about social barriers for

university students in this case a

student with a learning disability

received extra time for testing a very

common type of reasonable accommodation

for this type of disability and the

reaction from the teacher was you get

extra time on a hard exam Oh aren't you

lucky suggesting that the student with

disability is getting special privileges

or some kind of unfair advantage but as

dr. Rowe Tolkien

pointed out in her 2010 article the 3

R's of supervising graduate psychology

students with disabilities reading

writing and reasonable accommodations

altering how standards are met does not

lower the standards themselves as long

as trainees are able to demonstrate that

they can meet the standard how they do

it including with reasonable

accommodations does not lower the

standard or give sink trainees some type

of pass this is not about producing

unfit clinicians this is about diversity

and leveling the playing field

here's another Mary is a post doctoral

fellow whose rheumatoid arthritis

effects typing for long periods she

discloses this to a primary supervisor

and asks for a reasonable accommodation

access to dictation software and a

private space in which to dictate for

confidentiality her supervisor follows

up with the office manager to obtain the

necessary software the office manager

refers the supervisor to the

institution's Equal Employment

Opportunity officer the EEO officer then

asks the supervisor to obtain permission

from the department head which the

department had grants the request for

space is denied and the software does

not arrive meanwhile the fellow feels

forced to use their own equipment which

goes against the institution's policy in

order to complete clinical documentation

after five or six months past the EEO

officer tells the supervisor that

additional paperwork must be submitted

by mary's medical provider because the

disability is not visible the fellow

submits the documentation from your

medical provider but the accommodations

are still not yet subsided six months

during this time period

Mary follows up with her supervisor on a

weekly basis about the issue

the supervisor realizes that he does not

know the accommodation process at the

institution he consistently responds to

Mary's questions that he has asked about

the accommodations and is still awaiting

a response however he's uncertain about

how to advocate for Mary's needs more

cessful II now that his supervisors have

said no or have not responded to his

requests he is uncertain about the best

course of action to establish reasonable

accommodations and move forward the

above vignette provides an example of

how challenging it may be for

supervisors to obtain reasonable

accommodations for their trainees at

their institution many psychologists

think that the trainee is the person who

is responsible for getting the

accommodations in place but as shown in

the vignette above it may be that the

trainee does not have the power to do

that and it falls to the supervisor and

then it is the supervisor who needs to

know how to navigate the system in their

institution which may not always be as

straightforward as one would hope many

psychologists and supervisors also

expect trainees to know exactly what

accommodations they need but different

training levels may lead to different

accommodation needs for example during

graduate school students may be able to

arrange their schedules to take breaks

and use pacing but there may be a more

rigid structured schedule at internship

the reaction from supervisors and

gatekeepers may be well but that is how

they must prove that they can cope in a

real job however not all jobs in

psychology are the same and having

different hours schedules accommodations

in and of itself does not make one a

danger to the public again altering how

a standard is met does not lower the

standard trainees may not have sought

reasonable accommodations in the past

and just over compensated without

accommodations but may begin to struggle

as the intensity of educational

requirements increase your four trainees

may not know what accommodations they

need until they're there the idea that a

trainee must disclose up front right

away assumes that accommodations will be

the same at all times and in all

situations and we know that that is not

true because circumstances

ments demands and disability changes

disability itself is not static it

changes whether due to chronic pain

assistive equipment breaks down new

medication side effects or other

elements of disability finally students

may experience consequences when

accommodations are delayed or not in

place research indicates that often

students with disabilities commonly

underutilized resources and

accommodations especially in

professional settings they may hurt

themselves or their clinical work may

suffer the contributing factors to this

are thought to be that students under

utilize resources out of a desire to be

equal and to be seen as comparable to

their non-disabled peers and to refute

bias and bias about those who use

reasonable accommodations so in talking

about reasonable accommodations it's

also important to consider the

institution and the culture of that

institution another barrier to obtaining

reasonable accommodations may be related

to the institutional cultural bias so

for example an institution may advertise

a 40-hour work week but the

institutional culture expects a 70 or 80

hour work week in this case a trainee

may think that with accommodations they

can meet the needs of the institution

not knowing the institutional culture

ahead of time and may set the trainee up

for possible failure also painting

reasonable accommodations may be very

different between institutions for

example persons with invisible

disabilities may be required to prove

their worthiness in obtaining reasonable

accommodations by submitting additional

paperwork from a medical provider which

is not necessarily required of their

visible disability peers trainees who

have just moved for internship or a post

doctoral fellowship who are required to

obtain this type of medical

documentation

to receive an accommodation maybe in a

really tight spot because it may take

months before they're able to see a

provider or specialist who can provide

the requested documentation and again

the attitudes of people including

psychology who work within an

institution may be colored by the

culture of that institution this cause

is a type of disability bias

trickle-down effect some of the most

common biases that may include some of

the following comments such as is your

disability that bad are you sure you

can't just use what's there well how did

you get this far well haven't you always

been providing your own accommodations

really all these comments just send a

message of devaluing the student not

only are these questions a type of

microaggression but the attitude may

lead to delays in establishing

accommodations which in and of itself

leads to serious self doubt lack of

growth and detriment to qualified

students so one of the things that that

we hope you do as a result of this

lecture is work to develop a disability

of firming environment so how do you do

that by increasing disability awareness

that's knowledge awareness and skills

can do that through self exploration of

your biases continuing education

consultation we strongly advocate that

training directors and psychology

leaders seek opportunities to raise

awareness about working with trainees

with disabilities among the clinical

supervisors on their staff know the

accommodations process at your

institution if supervisors want students

to disclose they must provide a safe

place for them to do so and one way to

do it is ask everybody about

accommodations so what do supervise

do if students don't disclose often

disability only comes up if a trainee

starts to struggle this should be one of

the first conversations after the

trainee has been accepted to the program

or site don't ask everyone if they have

a disability that question is

technically illegal it is important that

early in the beginning to identify your

role as a supervisor and facilitator in

navigating the new environment all

trainees will have questions are things

they don't know at the very beginning of

any new supervisory relationship

acknowledge and state that this includes

helping trainees seek and establish

accommodations if needed you can freeze

it however it feels most comfortable for

you but include I am the also the person

who would help you establish reasonable

accommodations if you needed them if you

ever need reasonable accommodations

please let me know

and finally supervisors must be

advocates for students with disabilities

so whose responsibility is it to help

the supervisor examine his or her

attitudes about disability well it's the

supervisors and supervisors should

engage in self-reflection to be aware of

their own biases Okin establishes that

educators bear a responsibility for

serious introspection and offers

questions to guide them can also seek

consultation with your colleagues we

found that there are benefits too when

students disclose disability including

to the supervisory relationship students

whose supervisors whose students

disclose report it's beneficial to the

supervisory relationship there's also

benefits in terms of APA accreditation

for training sites if students don't

disclose programs can't highlight

disability as part of diversity finally

the aspect of positive experiences

supervisors whose supervised supervisors

who supervise students with disabilities

report positive experiences working with

them including increased consultation

networking and professionals oh so when

is it appropriate for supervisors to ask

the supervisee to talk about their

disability we encourage you to consider

the social minority viewpoint at the

ruler Paulo sir you can insert another

diversity variable when considering the

importance of requiring trainees with

disabilities to disclose their

disability the law stipulates that

disability information is shared only on

the need-to-know basis and only if it

furthers supervision however even a

disability affirming environment does

not guarantee that a student will

disclose or respond to questions about

their disability the following vignette

is another real-life example to

highlight the importance of asking about

disability accommodations in the

beginning rather than waiting until a

trainee is struggling a supervisor is

very frustrated with an intern whose

reports and psychotherapy notes are very

slow to come and then repeatedly full of

spelling errors she has asked recently

asked the student do you need disability

accommodations

twice and the student has declined she

brings her concern to the training

committee and the committee recommends

that she give the student negative

ratings on her upcoming evaluation he

was not sure what more she can do the

truth is this is exactly what will not

lead to disability disclosure when you

have a frustrated supervisor and a

defensive student I subscribed above

while a supervisor cannot make a trainee

identify with having a disability or

accept reasonable accommodations it is

recommended that they have a

conversation about the issues that are

arising in the students work disability

could be listed as one potential

contributing factor or merely point out

that if reasonable accommodations were

ever needed that the supervisor feet

would be the person to coordinate this

if disability is something that the

trainee does identify with

encourage the trainee to get support to

trainees we say find your people there

are virtually no specific resources

available however there is sig the

special interest group psychologists

with disabilities students may also

start their own support group for

persons with chronic illness and

disability or build a support network

one Avenue may be to get in touch with

sea dip the American Psychological

associations Committee on disability

issues in psychology as a supervisor if

you work with a trainee who is

struggling and you suspect that

disability may be a part of the picture

ask to the trainee if reasonable

accommodations may be needed and

encourage the trainee to be part of

creating a solution and developing the

reasonable accommodation talk about

self-advocate and ways to approach

challenges to obtaining reasonable

accommodations remember accommodations

not a guarantee of success but are there

to level the playing field and so we

give you more information about the

special interest group in APA Division

22 a psychologist with disability that

is led by dr.

Erin Andrews and we give

you dr. answers email address division

22 also has a mentorship committee which

we provide their website and the contest

for that is Mary dr.

Mary Browns Berger

as well as the website for the American

Psychological associations committee on

disability issues in psychology

so how can a supervisor communicate

openness and recommend accommodations to

a supervisor with a disability who has

not requested them or does not want them

recognize that disability identity and

acceptance may play a role normalize

accommodations understand that trainees

want to be seen as comparable to their

non-disabled peers and remind them that

altering how a standard is met doesn't

alter the standard reframe

accommodations a supervisor could

reframe accommodations as routine ways

of maximizing chances of success take a

strengths-based stand and finally

encourage trainees to look to future

sites on how they will self-advocate

when they are independent practitioners

if they're having difficulty now it's

possible it will follow them that it is

in their benefit to explore all their

options now on the whole we encourage

supervisors to treat disability as any

other diversity factor and supervision

we encourage every supervisor to ask if

the trainee may need accommodations

early in the supervisory relationship

and continue to check in as noted above

one way we encourage this is for every

supervisor to open the door about

disability at the beginning of the

supervisory relationship this could be

as simple as also I let all my trainees

know that if you should ever need

reasonable accommodations of any kind

please let me know I'm aware of how to

establish accommodations at this

institution and would be the primary

person to do that

be aware that disability needs may

change over the course of training and

that accommodations may need to

correspondingly change be aware that

trainees may not know what

accommodations they need until they're

in the situation and it will be the

supervisors responsibility to help

coordinate and establish accommodations

our final point is a call to action for

supervisors

We strongly advocate the training

directors and psychology leaders seek

opportunities to raise awareness about

working with trainees with disabilities

among the clinical supervisors on their

staff supervisors you could be an

instrumental factor in making these

changes and creating a disability

affirming training environments we also

strongly encourage supervisors to become

more aware of trainees concerns are on

disclosure and work towards developing a

disability affirming environment

remember altering how standards are met

does not lower the standards themselves

we wanted to leave you with a final

quote by dr.

Samuels we chose this quote

to end this lecture to provide a window

into what we have tried to convey here

today and our hope for what disability

and training can be for the future so I

originally wrote this in a blog post for

the APA newsletter about my experiences

and challenges in psychology training as

a person with a disability going through

internship interviews in clinical

supervision is sometimes felt the focus

was primarily on my Tourette's focus on

my strengths and capabilities rather

than my disability would make me feel

more welcome in the profession we would

like to think of room for attending and

we will now take questions all right

thank you dr.

Samuels Thank You Elliot

to the presenters we're now going to

begin answering the questions submitted

during today's presentation as a

reminder you can still submit questions

through the questions pane in your

attendee control panel

so looks like our first question is what

other suggestions do you have for

training director that wants to create a

disability affirming environment dr.

Wilbur do you want to start um you know

I think that one of the important things

are what we mentioned here Lee um

including disability as part of training

perhaps in lecture series that are given

to both trainees as well as to

supervisors in some institutions there

is a supervisor kind of ongoing you know

supervisory issues group that they have

and I would encourage training directors

to include disability as part of that as

something to consider as part of the

disability environment and to in this

in a supervisory relationship and maybe

Angela will offer some insight since she

is also the assistant training director

at the Cleveland VA sure so I was I was

just gonna suggest we've got a great

reference list and we quoted some great

articles throughout the presentation

today use those for journal clubs with

supervisors send those out for readings

and echo dot what dr. Wilbur said about

making sure you know your supervisors

get to see a presentation like this yeah

I totally agree with what dr. Wilbur and

dr.

Camilla are saying I was gonna say

what dr. jablow was just saying just now

in regards to just you know seek out

opportunities to enhance your knowledge

and awareness about these issues we've

we've name-dropped dr. Rowe token

several times as well as people like

Emily lund and Andrews so forth you know

these are preeminent people in our field

we've written a lot about the issues

within psychology and within training

communities and you know so reading any

of their materials will take you a far

way

in Reverse enhancing your knowledge and

awareness of these issues which would

then hopefully make you a more

disability and affirming training

environment all right thank you

we have another question I just want to

answer really quickly someone asks are

the complete reference is going to be

available yes we're going to upload this

presentation to YouTube and you're going

to have a list at the end of this

PowerPoint of the full set of references

so thanks for asking great question we

have another question that says can you

say more about how a standard is met and

it doesn't affect the standard well for

example in some cases there may be a

disability where extra time is needed so

you know a great example that dr.

Okun

gives in one of her articles was for

example some of the spinal cord injury

may have to do bowel program in the

morning and maybe it doesn't go as

planned

and so the trainee may not necessarily

get to

a site on time in the morning and that

in and of itself does not necessarily

make one a danger to the public but

having maybe flexible hours that we'll

be able to fit you know of tell well

into you know what the trainee can do

but also being mindful of accommodations

so you know some of it like you know a

lot of the examples for reasonable

accommodations include things like you

know extra time on tasks for someone

with ADHD or some kind of learning

disability as part of their disability

and you know the student still has the

opportunity to demonstrate the knowledge

and the skill the the purpose is to

still be able to demonstrate that they

have the capability they still have to

meet the standard but having extra time

you know because of attentional

difficulties doesn't necessarily mean

that the person can't meet the standard

it's just meaning in a slightly

different way yes that's a that's a

really comprehensive answer I don't I

don't have anything to add

okay we have

one more question

doctors Kimmel and Wilbur would you be

able to share a little bit about your

research sure um that would be great um

so well I was at the Cleveland VA I'm

doing my post doctoral fellowship I

worked with dr. Kimmel on my super on my

research project there and we were

curious about the knowledge and

awareness of supervisors in psychology

across the country in terms of how well

they were familiar with disability

issues and reasonable accommodations and

so we developed a anonymous online

questionnaire for supervisors to answer

and it came in three parts the first

part was just a demographics

questionnaire to kind of understand the

pocky

that responded in terms of things like

where they were located what populations

they served institutions that they were

a part of and also what division they

were a part of because we were curious

if people for example from the

rehabilitation psychology division or

health psychology might have more

awareness around disability issues and

maybe someone from a research field or

something like that and then the second

section really looked at just basic yes

or no kind of questions about awareness

about disability you know what is a

reasonable accommodation and you know

knowledge about the Americans

Disabilities Act and then the last

section was one of two possible

vignettes both vignettes were exactly

the same they both described a trainee

who had previously been doing well at

their site and now we're exhibiting some

difficulties in one of the vignettes it

mentions that the student is a lifetime

wheelchair user and the other one

doesn't mention anything and the purpose

of that was to see if the responses in

terms of how the supervisors would

respond to the issue related to whether

or not they had any awareness around

this being related disability so the one

that doesn't mention anything about

disability was an invisible disability

vignette and that's obviously the one

that mentions that the trainee was a

wheelchair user was the visible

disability vignette and we found some

amazing differences in terms of how

supervisors would handle the situation

just by the simple fact that one of them

mentioned that one was a wheelchair user

so we knew that there was some

misunderstanding among our supervisors

and we felt it was really important to

try to understand that where are the

places where we have some holes in our

training for our supervisors and how can

we best support them alright great yeah

the only the only thing I want to add

real quick is you know dr. Wilbur talked

about the biases and the supervisors

treating visible and invisible

disability better the

they were also incredibly confused about

a disability accommodations yes that was

also very clear from our research so

we're hoping that you know this webinar

and and future research and publications

will be able to offer supervisors just

more resources more education and

hopefully to be able to kind of change

some of the the culture in psychology in

general around disability issues all

right perfect

well thank you so much to our presenters

thank you for everyone for attending

today's webinar you're going to receive

a follow-up email with a link to view

the recording of today's webinar

sometime this month as well as a survey

on the presentation and a way to contact

the presenters if your questions have

not been answered today we'd greatly

appreciate if you would complete that

and provide your feedback on behalf of

APA and our presenters thank you so much

for joining us today and have a great

rest of your day

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✅ Ariana Grande has claimed her relationship with Mac Miller was ''toxic''.The 'No Tears Left To Cry - Duration: 2:27.

Ariana Grande has claimed her relationship with Mac Miller was ''toxic''.The 'No Tears Left To Cry' hitmaker - who split from the rapper recently after two years together - hit back at a fan who suggested she should have stayed with him

She wrote in a lengthy statement on Twitter: ''How absurd that you minimize female self-respect and self-worth by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them, which btw [by the way] isn't the case (just Cinderella is ab [about] me)

I am not a babysitter or a mother and no woman should feel that they need to be. I have cared for him and tried to support his sobriety & prayed for his balance for years (and always will of course) but shaming/blaming women for a man's inability to keep his s**t together is a very major problem

Let's please stop doing that. of course I didn't share about how hard or scary it was while it was happening but it was

I will continue to pray from the bottom of my heart that he figures it all out and that any other woman in this position does as well (sic)''Just after the pair decided to go their separate ways, Ariana posted a sweet message to say she will always ''endlessly support'' her former beau

She wrote: ''Hi! This is one of my best friends in the whole world and favorite people on the planet Malcolm McCormick

I respect and adore him endlessly and am grateful to have him in my life in any form, at all times regardless of how our relationship changes or what the universe holds for each of us! Unconditional love is not selfish

It is wanting the best for that person even if at the moment, it's not you. I can't wait to know and support you forever and I'm so proud of you!! (sic)''

For more infomation >> ✅ Ariana Grande has claimed her relationship with Mac Miller was ''toxic''.The 'No Tears Left To Cry - Duration: 2:27.

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Rafael Nadal clarifies about his relationship with Roger Federer - Duration: 4:10.

Rafael Nadal clarifies about his relationship with Roger Federer

Recently, TV presenter Annabel Croft suggested that Rafael Nadal may retire after Roger Federer in order to try to beat the Swiss players records, but in a recent interview to TgCom 24, the Spanish player suggested he only thinks about his career and not his biggest rivals.

Its not a competition with Federer.

For me Federer has his own career, I have my own, Federer is fantastic for all the things he did and I think me too.

We were good to keep a good relationship each other.

Its true that we played in many very important situations for both, (made up) of pressure, but the most important thing is that we understood that at the end its a game.

Then he was reflective speaking about his life: I am a grateful and lucky person for all the things I lived and the experience that I had during all these years on the Tour.

Rafael Nadal responds to Roger Federer comparison with hilarious fishing comment.

Nadal returned to the top of the world rankings by beating Alexander Zverev to win the Italian Open last week.

The Spaniard leapfrogged arch-rival Roger Federer with his latest success.

However, Federer, 36, is the oldest ever player to hold the honour and Nadal, 31, is unsure if he will be unable to accomplish that achievement later in life.

Alternatively, Nadal joked he would probably be the world No 1 in fishing instead, such as the uncertainty of his future.

But the King of Clay did tip three rising stars to step into his shoes when he does fall off the top of his game.

"I dont know, we will see [where i will be in five years time]," Nadal said.

"There are many new and younger players and its difficult to say.

"Will I be there? There is a big chance that in five years I will be the world No 1 in fishing.

"Today there are (Alexander) Zverev, (Dominic) Thiem, (Denis) Shapovalov who is very strong, but many others will come.

Nadal is now preparing to defend his French Open crown next week at the second Grand Slam of the year.

He is the heavy favourite to win an 11th title at Rolland Garros on a surface where he is almost unbeatable.

But Sky Sports pundit Annabel Croft thinks Zverev and Dominic Thiem could run him close in Paris.

"Most people are saying Thiem's probably the second favourite going towards the French Open but after this week I think we're definitely going to say that Zverev is the second favourite, I would say," she said.

"He's such a quick learner and such an intelligent human being, intelligent tennis player and match player - he's gained a lot of information from this match [against Nadal].

"This is why these Masters series events and the other events around the Grand Slams are so important to get that information about your opponent and your opposition going towards the Grand Slam that you can use.

For more infomation >> Rafael Nadal clarifies about his relationship with Roger Federer - Duration: 4:10.

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Top 7 Answers to "Why Do You Want a Relationship?" - Duration: 9:08.

hi thanks for visiting with me I appreciate when you take the time to

watch and comment on my videos and please stay tuned until the end of this

video for an exciting announcement are you looking for a relationship if you

want to be in a relationship have you thought about why

as a relationship

coach one of the first things I discuss with the client is what they want and

what it will mean for them when they get it so imagine that you come to my office

and I ask you why do you want to be in a relationship what would you say if you

ask people why they want a relationship many will say things like I want someone

to love me and make me feel special and worthy I don't want to be alone and

lonely anymore I want to have children or I want to feel safe and secure what

they might not say or even know about themselves is that they want a

relationship to fill the empty place within them or complete them they hope

that their partner will give them what they're not giving themselves and what

they might not have received as children they want to feel taken care of

emotionally financially or sexually do any of these reasons come to mind for

you do these sound like strong positive reasons to desire relationships let's

turn things around a little and imagine that instead of a relationship my client

said he wants to have a child and I asked what would it mean for you to have

a child if he gave these same answers how would it sound I want a child so I

will have someone to love me and make me feel special and worthy and I won't be

alone and lonely anymore I want a child to fill the empty place

inside and complete me do you hear what I hear

this man is expecting too much from a partner no other person can fill the

empty space inside of us and make us complete we have to do that for

ourselves so what would be a better stronger and more positive response to

that question what would it mean for you to be in a relationship

there are many compelling reasons to want a relationship and here are seven

of them number one being in a relationship is good for your health

statistics show that married people live longer than unmarried people and they

have higher happiness levels number two dual earning healthy couples create more

opportunity money and fun when you have someone by your side who is striving for

the same goals they are attained much more easily number three relationships

can help us be our best selves often we have the energy to do things for others

that we wouldn't do for ourselves love is powerful and your partner can bring

out the best in you number four you can get more done when

you have a partner sometimes it's a matter of motivation other times it's

just nice to have company whatever the reason four hands can get

more done than two number five having someone who knows you deeply is

validating this is the gift of knowing that the wonderful things you do are not

going unnoticed and it gives you more reason to do them

number six romance creates warmth hope and happiness the more you have the more

you'll enjoy your life having a hand to hold as you go through life makes the

difficulties we all experience easier to deal with when things go wrong knowing

that your mate has your back will help you get through whatever you

have to and come out the other side a more positive person

number seven is life affirming and all-encompassing and perhaps the best

reason of all to desire a relationship that is to learn more about myself grow

as a person and give love and support to someone who loves and supports me in

return relationships are the most fertile

ground for learning about what is wounded within us and for having a safe

space to heal most of us have baggage from our childhood that we carry into

our primary relationships such as fears of rejection abandonment and loss of

self these fears generally may be worked out with a partner which offers us an

incredible opportunity to learn about and heal them a relationship can provide

great motivation for personal growth learning about fears of intimacy as well

as about control issues that may surface with a primary partner can lead to

learning and growing as a person and enhancing our ability to love the more

you learn to take responsibility for your own feelings such as learning to

love yourself and feel special and valued the more you may want a

relationship to share your love rather than to get love contrary to what many

believe it's not receiving love that takes away loneliness it's sharing your

love with another that does that the most profound and beautiful experience

in life is the opportunity to share love but we can't share our love unless we

are first filled with love when we learn to fill ourselves with love from our

source whatever that is for each person such as nature spirit God or the energy

of the universe then we come to our partner with inner fullness rather than

with inner emptiness we share from our abundance or overflow that way rather

than needing a partner to complete us we want to share our completeness with our

partner when two people come together to get love rather than to learn heal and

share love there's a strong possibility that their relationship won't last with

both partners trying to get loved and filled by the other and neither one

having learned to love and fill them selves each will ultimately be

disappointed very often one or both might believe they've picked the wrong

partner when two people come together because they want to learn together grow

together heal together share their time and companionship and share their love

and passion they have a good chance of creating a lasting loving relationship

when these people are asked why they want a relationship they'll say I have a

lot of love to give and I want to share it with a partner who also has a lot of

love to give possibly we might want to have children

to love as well I want to learn and grow with someone who also wants to learn and

grow or I want to share time companionship lovemaking laughter and

play with someone and feel a deep connection look deeply inside now and

honestly ask yourself why you want a relationship and if you find that you

just want to be loved remember you can learn to love and fill yourself with

love so that you have plenty of love to share with a partner it's important to

realize that we attract people who are most like us in thought and belief

patterns and that means we'll end up with a person who is at the same level

of taking personal responsibility for their happiness and well-being as we are

or they may be at the level of giving up on themselves which includes making

someone else responsible for their feelings given this reality you have a

far better chance of creating a healthy and loving relationship with a partner

when you have a healthy and loving relationship with yourself I'd love to

know your answer to the question what would being in a relationship mean for

you let me know by leaving a comment below please visit my patreon page and

consider pledging a small amount each month to join our community receive

bonus perks and support my work and take a moment now to like this video with a

thumbs up Oh remember that exciting announcement I

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notifications when I go live or upload a new video and share this video with your

friends thanks for meeting with me we'll talk again soon

the softer side

hi

thanks for visiting with me I appreciate you know when you me me mean you mean

you mean me okay got that out of my system

For more infomation >> Top 7 Answers to "Why Do You Want a Relationship?" - Duration: 9:08.

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Meghan Markle: Woman Up! Relationship Advice for Women - Duration: 1:53.

Boys play with toys but men play to win!

I've been saying that for as long as I can remember because it's true.

Prince Harry played with the emotions of a woman for six long years.

Listen, a man that's not ready will take everything you give to him and still not be

ready.

Do I need to repeat myself?

I think I do.

A man that is not ready for marriage will take all the cookies out the cookie jar and

still not be ready to marry you.

#2.

Woman Up!

What exactly does that mean?

You've heard the term "Man Up?"

Well, when a woman steps up and does what is in her best interest then she "woman's

up" regardless of how she feels, she does what is right for her.

When you "woman up" you become the fat lady and you say, "it's over" and then do as the

lyrics in the song by Kenny Rogers.

"You got to know when to hold 'em, when to fold 'em, know when to walk away and

know when to run.

I don't advocate divorce, but if you're in a situationship and the ship has sunk and

sailed, you might wanna get your paddle and get to rowing.

When you as a woman, know who you are, you'll know who he is when he comes along so you

won't be confused and end up getting used.

For more infomation >> Meghan Markle: Woman Up! Relationship Advice for Women - Duration: 1:53.

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Loco Denies Reports Of Relationship With Non-Celebrity - Duration: 1:48.

Loco Denies Reports Of Relationship With Non-Celebrity

Loco recently issued a quick denial to a dating rumor.

On May 23, News1 reported that Loco was in a three-year relationship with a non-celebrity woman, claiming that the relationship was known to the rappers friends and that the woman was studying for her civil service exams.

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On May 24, a source representing Loco denied the rumors, telling Xportsnews, These reports of Loco dating are false.

Meanwhile, Loco has seen steady on the music charts with his duet with MAMAMOOs Hwasa, produced for the show Hyenas on the Keyboard.

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Top Photo Credit: Xportsnews.

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Ariana Grande Calls Relationship With Mac Miller 'Toxic,' Addresses His Sobriety - Duration: 7:40.

Ariana Grande Calls Relationship With Mac Miller 'Toxic,' Addresses His Sobriety

Ariana Grande responded to a fan on Wednesday who appeared to blame the singer for rapper Mac Millers recent arrest on a charge of DUI.

Grande and Miller split earlier this month after nearly two years of dating, and a source told ET that shes now casually dating Saturday Night Live star Pete Davidson.

Mac Miller totalling his G wagon and getting a DUI after Ariana Grande dumped him for another dude after he poured his heart out on a ten song album to her called the divine feminine is just the most heartbreaking thing happening in Hollywood, the Twitter user wrote.

Grande replied with a lengthy response, calling her relationship with the rapper toxic.

She also claimed she dealt with issues relating to Millers sobriety throughout their relationship.

How absurd you minimize female self-respect and self-worth by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them, which btw isnt the case (just Cinderealla is ab me), Grande tweeted.

I am not a babysitter or a mother and no woman should feel that they need to be.

I have cared for him and tried to support his sobriety & prayed for his balance for years (and always will of course) but shaming/blaming women for a mans inability to keep his shit together is a very major problem..

An official for the Los Angeles Police Department told ET last Thursday that 26-year-old Miller was the driver involved in a traffic collision with a power pole at 12:50 a.m. that morning in the San Fernando Valley in California.

According to the official, Miller and his two passengers fled the scene on foot.

A short time later, Miller was arrested without incident at 1:50 a.m. for a misdemeanor DUI.

Miller has talked openly about his sobriety in the past.

Hes credited producer Rick Rubin for helping him get sober in 2015, though in an April 2017 interview, he said he was now living regularly..

I've spent a good time very sober and now I'm just, like, living regularly I think it's important, he told W magazine.

I don't believe in absolute anything, but I think not sharing that type of information, because it becomes like, Oh he's sober, oh he's not, oh he has a beer, oh my god. I just realized some things are important to just keep for yourself.

That was a learning experience.

But it was important to let everyone know that I wasn't doing fucking crazy amounts of hard drugs.

That was good to get out there..

Up until Grandes tweet on Wednesday, the exes appeared to have an extremely amicable breakup.

After news of the split broke, 24-year-old Grande took to her Instagram Stories to share a sweet message about Miller.

Hi! This is one of my best friends in the whole world and favorite people on the planet Malcolm McCormick, she wrote, referring to Millers legal name.

I respect and adore him endlessly and am grateful to have him in my life in any form, at all times regardless of how our relationship changes or what the universe holds for each of us!.

Unconditional love is not selfish, she continued.

It is wanting the best for that person even if at the moment, its not you.

I cant wait to know and support you forever and Im so proud of you!!.

A source previously told ET that the couple had been on the rocks for "a while" prior to their split shortly after the Coachella Music Festival in April.

The source also added that Grandes relationship with 24-year-old Davidson is "new, and that the singer is "is in a very good place and very happy right now.".

For more infomation >> Ariana Grande Calls Relationship With Mac Miller 'Toxic,' Addresses His Sobriety - Duration: 7:40.

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Rafael Nadal Explains Reason For 'Good Relationship' With Roger Federer - Duration: 3:57.

Rafael Nadal Explains Reason For 'Good Relationship' With Roger Federer

Rafael Nadal opened up about his relationship with Roger Federer and made it clear that he is not chasing the Swiss ace's records.

Nadal and Federer are arguably the two greatest players of the current era, having eclipsed all the previous records during their dominance at the top of the game for over a decade.

The Swiss maestro is widely considered the greatest player of all time owing to his achievements — 20 men's singles Grand Slam titles, most consecutive weeks as the world number one and second on the list of all time ATP singles titles among others.

The Spaniard has 16 men's singles Grand Slam titles to Federer's 20 major titles, and is considered the greatest clay court player ever owing to his 10 French Open titles and 46 other titles on his favorite surface.

But when you compare the two greats, Federer comes out on top owing to his higher number of titles.

Nadal is fourth on the list of most number of singles titles, which he recently achieved when he overtook John McEnroe by winning his 78th title at the Italian Open.Despite the two players being in the latter part of their careers, Nadal, 31, is five years Federer's junior and is likely to play for a few more years than the Swiss ace.

This has seen a number of former players back him to catch Federer and possibly surpass the latter at least in the race for most Grand Slam titles.

Nadal, however, is not concerned about catching Federer and insists that he is focusing on his own career.

He believes that both players have achieved greatness in their own right.

"Its not a competition with Federer.

For me Federer has his own career, I have my own, Federer is fantastic for all the things he did and I think me too," Nadal said, refuting claims he is chasing Federer's record, as quoted by Tennis World USA.

"We were good to keep a good relationship with each other.".

Nadal and Federer have faced each other 38 times in their career and a number of the clashes have been in major finals.

They are still battling at the top of the ATP men's singles ranking with both the players having held the number one spot on two occasions this season.

The Spaniard is currently the world number one and has to defend his title at the French Open to do so.

Despite their long standing rivalry, the two have maintained a close relationship off the court and Nadal revealed why that was the case between the two greats of the game.

"Its true that we played in many very important situations for both, (made up) of pressure, but the most important thing is that we understood that at the end its a game," the Spaniard added.

For more infomation >> Rafael Nadal Explains Reason For 'Good Relationship' With Roger Federer - Duration: 3:57.

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FIRST POLISH WRITER TO WIN MAN BOOKER PRIZE HAS ODD RELATIONSHIP WITH JEWS - Duration: 2:08.

FIRST POLISH WRITER TO WIN MAN BOOKER PRIZE HAS ODD RELATIONSHIP WITH JEWS

Best selling author Olga Tokarczuk wins 2018 award for Flights but came under attack in 2014 for The Book of Jacob. Best-selling author Olga Tokarczuk became the first Polish author to win Man Booker International prize on Tuesday for her novel Flights.

I would like to also mention that I am the very first winner of this International Man Booker Prize as a Pole, with the Polish language, she said in her acceptance speech, which Im very proud [of].

I dont believe in national literature, she stated, I really do believe that literature is like a live being, [a] creature which pops up in one language and then into another through another language. So, this is another miracle - literature..

She then confessed to wearing earrings she bought with money earned in 1987 when she first came to London and worked as a hotel chambermaid.

Tokarczuk will evenly split the 50,000 pound prize [66,750 USD] with her translator to English Jennifer Croft, reported The Guardian.

Flights is set from the 17th to 21st century, combining stories of modern-day travel alongside tales of a Dutch anatomist from the 17th century and the tale of Frederic Chopins sister transporting his heart after the composer died.

This is not the first time Tokarczuk gained the attention of the media in her native Poland and the world.

In her 2014 novel The Book of Jacob she presented the Polish audience with a very different historical reality than the one usually celebrated, that of harmonious Polish-Jewish relations as coined by Polish national poet Adam Mickiewicz.

Mickiewicz penned into his epic poem Pan Tadeusz a wedding scene in which the Polish celebration is only made better by Jewish musicians who are cherished and welcomed.

The poem is still taught today as a gem of Polish literature to school children.

In contrast, The Book of Jacob focuses on the life of Jacob Frank, an 18 century Jewish cultist, to present Poles as a people that can be tolerant at times but also cruel and oppressive, to Jews as well as to serfs and Ukrainians.

Polish Senator Waldemar Bonkowski [Law and Justice Party] slammed the author when the book was published for her understanding and depiction of Polish history. After receiving threats, her publishers provided her with security detail for a week.

Tokarczuk responded to her critics in an interview given to Gazeta Wyborca in December 2015 saying that she is the true patriot, not the nationalist who burns an effigy of a Jew.

For more infomation >> FIRST POLISH WRITER TO WIN MAN BOOKER PRIZE HAS ODD RELATIONSHIP WITH JEWS - Duration: 2:08.

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Ariana Grande describes her relationship with Mac Miller as 'toxic' - Duration: 2:47.

Ariana Grande describes her relationship with Mac Miller as 'toxic'

Ariana Grande has labelled her relationship with Mac Miller as "toxic" while responding to a fan who slammed her for dumping him.

The No Tears Left To Cry Singer, who this week marked the one-year anniversary of a terrorist murdering 22 people at her concert at the Manchester Arena, tweeted that she was "not a babysitter or a mother" in response to a social media user who described her failed relationship with the rapper as "heartbreaking".

The 24-year-old split with Miller earlier this year and last week he was reportedly arrested on suspicion of drink-driving.

Replying on Twitter to a fan who criticised her for ending the relationship, Grande wrote: "How absurd that you minimize female self-respect and self-worth by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them, which btw isn't the case (just Cinderella is ab me).

"I am not a babysitter or a mother and no woman should feel that they need to be.

I have cared for him and tried to support his sobriety & prayed for his balance for years (and always will of course) but shaming/blaming women for a man's inability to keep his s*** together is a very major problem.

"Let's please stop doing that. Of course I didn't share about how hard or scary it was while it was happening but it was.

I will continue to pray from the bottom of my heart that he figures it all out and that any other woman in this position does as well.".

The original tweeter then apologised to Grande, who replied: "Thank you for hearing me, I appreciate your response v much.

After news of the break-up emerged earlier this month, Grande wrote that she and Miller shared "unconditional love" and that he was "one of my best friends in the whole world". Grande is reportedly now dating Saturday Night Live host Pete Davidson.

Miller's representatives have been approached for comment.

For more infomation >> Ariana Grande describes her relationship with Mac Miller as 'toxic' - Duration: 2:47.

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✅ Khloe Kardashian wants to fix her relationship with Tristan Thompson before they think about marri - Duration: 2:40.

Khloe Kardashian wants to fix her relationship with Tristan Thompson before they think about marriage

Although the 33-year-old reality star - who gave birth to the couple's first daughter True six weeks ago - is said to want to tie the knot, she wants to focus on working on their problems after the basketball star was pictured seemingly getting close to another woman while she was pregnant

A source told E! News: ''Of course she has always thought she would get married again and wanted that with Tristan, but any conversation or plans have been put to a halt and are not even a discussion

''Now that she has made a decision to spend more time in Cleveland, Khloe and Tristan are trying to repair their relationship one day at a time

''It was recently revealed that Khloe - who was previously married to Lamar Odom - is ''happier and happier every day'' and wants to marry Tristan one day

A source said: ''She is doing great. She seems happier and happier every day . She wants her family to be together

He has been very apologetic. Khloé wants to get married eventually, but there are no serious wedding talks yet

''She does talk about a future with Tristan, though. She believes they can figure things out and have a happy life together

True is doing great, too. And Kris [Jenner] is so proud of all her grandkids. She constantly shows pictures of all the babies

''Khloe's sister Kim Kardashian West recently admitted she was ''rooting'' for the pair and hopes that they would reconcile

She said: ''I'm always rooting for her. I'm always rooting for love. I'm always rooting for families

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