You have a big event coming up where you're supposed to speak and you're all stressed out or was the biggest what-if
public speaking
What if I figure my speech on stage?
Well, should you memorize a speech what should you not?
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There are really only four ways you can go about your speech
number one you can write out your whole speech word for word and
Read it I can't believe I just said that but there are still some people who do it
Absolute. No, do not do that
that's the worst thing you can possibly do with your speech because
even though you're gonna
Say it word for word and you're not gonna make a mistake
And you won't forget anything because you're region
It's a waste of everybody's time. It's a waste of your time. It's a waste of your audience time. You will never ever
Connect and captivate your audience
By looking at your paper. Nobody connects to you. When also you can see is the top of your head
Big-big no
Way number two wing it
Sounds crazy, but I know a few people who do it
many times I have to give a speech they just wait and
Honestly, maybe does work for people who are I don't know professional stand-up comedians or do open mics routinely
but for the rest of us
We need it may not be the ideal solution
First of all when you're trying to wing it most likely you will make mistakes, for example, you'll forget something
second
You will probably not be as
logical as
Compelling as captivating as if you had been if you actually prepared and thought your presentation through and
thirdly
Very often when you win it
Your audience can actually tell that you're not prepared
And the problem with that is that now they're thinking what you're wasting their time. Why didn't you think this through?
Why are you going back and forth? We've all sat through those?
speeches where
you just trying to
understand where the speaker is going with this because it's
Pure she is all over the place and some of you may ask well
but I've seen a speaker who was asked to go and give a speech spontaneously and
he or she was amazing and just
gives us
Impromptu speech without being prepared
But let me tell you most likely
Even though it was sperm a moment. Speech
there have been
years of preparation for it
there have been years of
knowing the material
learning the material
Learning to speak learning to present learning how to engage the audience learn how to be on stage
Really great professionals make it look effortless
So don't mistaken somebody who is effortless on stage when unit
For not being prepared they probably are
Number three
memorize the entire speech
now
It may sound like a great idea to some
It may sound crazy
to others
But hear me out
Very recently. I've been listening to an interview of
Elizabeth Gilbert the author of Eat Pray Love
She was interviewed by Marie Forleo and it was a wonderful wonderful interview and there was just a little tiny piece of it
That was about public speaking where?
Elizabeth was talking about
receiving an invitation from Oprah to talk at her mega
event and
When you get an invitation from Oprah you take it very very seriously
and you prepare and
so for six months
six months
Elizabeth Gilbert
Has been working on her speech for about two months. She's been writing it and rewriting opinion writer
Now that comes easy to her. She's an incredible writer
But then for four months she's been memorizing it
She would go for a five-mile walk every single day
and as she was walking she would be going through her speech in your head and
by the time she was given that presentation in front of
thousands and thousands of people
She was ready. She knew it by heart. She absolutely memorized it down to her bones pretty much and she was
incredible on stage here is my problem with
memorizing the speech
Unless you really are spending six months working on it
You probably won't
memorize it as well as you think and
The worst thing that can possibly happen on stage. Is you going in with a
Memorized speech and then you forget something and you join a complete blank because you take one break out
the whole building collapses because you didn't memorize
the
Logic of it the outline of it
you memorize
Every single word you memorize your presentation word-for-word
another reason why memorizing could be bad is
It may end up sounding very robotic
It may not sound genuine. It may not sound
sincere and way number four
Memorize the outline only
now
This is how it works you
memorize
the flow
The logic the outline of your presentation you memorize the skeleton of your presentation
Which means?
If you forget something
That's okay because you remember point number one point number two and twenty number three that you need to make
So if you forgot to say something point number one
you just move on to point number two and you continue going and you make it look seamless and
Effortless and it doesn't look like you made a mistake
Now you probably also want to memorize your opening and your closing
The reason you want to memorize your opening is because this is when you are
The most stressed on stage when you just come out on stage. This is where you're the most nervous
And probably memorizing those first three five sentences is not a bad idea
so memorizing the first few sentences and
Then memorizing the last few sentences
You always want to close on a very strong note
you always want to drive your point across you always want to have your call to action and
It will probably be a lot easier if you just memorized you end in
It will probably come out smooth
But the middle of it is the bulk the biggest chunk of your presentation you
do not memorize you only
memorize the skeleton of
your speech
Now which way I prefer
Definitely definitely number four now tell me in the comments which way of preparing for your speech do you prefer?
Is it number one?
written from the paper number two
winging it number three
Memorizing your whole speech word-for-word or number four just memorizing the outline
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