This memory of not having mobile phones is still fresh in my head
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Progress isn't standing on one place
whether we're talking about science inventions or relationships.
Yes I compare that. Deal with it!
There was this time in the history
when women were fighting for their rights.
The rights to work, the rights to vote.
And sometimes I see how girls are fighting for something in the relationships
which I'm not sure is worth fighting for.
Can I be honest with you?
I'm an old-fashioned.
I believe that guys should ask girl out
I believe that he should pay her compliment and pay for the dinner.
And I don't get why girls are getting so offended when this happens.
Like: "Do you think then I'm not earning money?
Do you think that I can't pay for myself?
I'm an independent woman!"
Chill woman! Who's argued with that?
if you think about this and this way that
you can do everything by yourself
and you can learn how to do everything by yourself!
Then yeah, it's true.
But what is the point then to have all this qualified professionals
who went to the universities to learn something?
Okay, maybe I took it too far.
Seriously for this war for the independence
and being on an equal footing with men
I think we are taking away some of the nice moments
some of the perks of their relationships and dates.
When the guy's asking you out it means that you can relax right now
there is no need for you to think of where to go what to do.
What? What? What?
No, now you just need to stress out about the usual things
that we stressing out like
What should I wear?
How should I do my makeup and my hair?
And this is one of the perks of going on dates and being in the relationships
Now you can get some stuff out of your head and
let your man handle this stuff.
We are responsible for the signals though
like smiling and flirting, and answering his messages.
This is our way of showing you guys that we like you.
And your way of showing it to us is asking us out.
If these signals are clear and this sympathy is mutual between u two
Then it shouldn't be scary for you guys to ask this girl out.
If these signals were not clear though
which girls you shouldn't do that!
Then yes you are taking a risk by asking her out.
But ask yourself a question.Does she worth risking?
And like with many risky situations yes there is
a possibility of you to get "yes" or "no"
but you can handle it!
You boys can handle "No" easier than girls
Seriously when girls are getting rejected
they are just stressing out
They're blowing their girlfriends mind with the question
"Why doesn't he like me?!"
You guys can deal with that easier.
You are stronger in this perspective.
We all have our roles in this dating-relationship situation
and I believe it's better to stay this way.
Cuz a) well you are a girl so be a girl
and b) if you want to take the control of asking guy for a date
then do you want to take up control about other things?
Like asking him to marry you and everything?
Is it okay for you?
Seriously it's okay for you?
I don't get this.
I am progressive in other things though
lie take for example house responsibilities.
And it's not double standards it's just common sense!
I don't believe that girls should do everything
while guys are sitting there doing nothing.
and you're doing this thing girls when you're rejecting guys attempts to help.
And you are saying things like:
"Well cooking is my way of showing that I love him"
This is a strange way of showing it and one day you will get tired
and he won't offer you help. Why?
Because he got used to that you are doing everything on your own
Independent woman!
People get used to the things to the bad things and to the good things.
We adapt!
it's really really important to set a clear message
in the beginning of your relationships.
Like if you don't like cooking then just tell this to your boyfriend
so he won't put a pressure on you
because you took away this responsibility when you told him
Don't expect me to hang out around the oven everyday
In general some things in our life have become easier
like now we have all this food delivery services and
you can call each other from any part of the world.
But we still love to watch this old classic movies. Why?
Because they are classics.
And I believe that we should leave something classy in our life
like boys asking goes to go out:)
And on this classy note I want to finish this video
Thank you guys for sharing with me another awesome awesome day!
I hope that you like this video! And if you do and if
you think like me on this topic or even if not
that if you're kind of generous
Then please show it to me but give it a big thumbs up!
Leave your comments and tell me how do you think
Is it okay for the girls to do everything right now that man do
like asking them for a date
or u think that it should stay like it was before
and guys should do all this stuff?
I love to know your thoughts because u know
we are moving towards something which I don't know.
So just leave something in the comments section down below:)
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